I don't come on here much anymore and when I do it always seems to be for advice about one thing or another, invariably involving a girl. Not sure if that's a good thing or a bad thing but whatever, any advice will be appreciated. This is pretty long but it's only 5 minutes of your time.
So, I finished this course a couple of weeks ago, for 4 weeks, first day in I end up sitting next to the fittest girl there, get talking to her and it turns out me and her are the only ones from Bury, so I get the tram home with her and then to the course 3 days a week (she was somewhere else for 2). I liked her from day one and she was giving me these looks and sending txts and whatnot, I do a radio show on Mondays and she was listening to that (no one listens).
This gets to a point where my tutor asks me if we're already going out as he says she proper panders to me and stuff, never spoke up once in any group sessions until I was leading the session, even this woman who ran the course and we hardly ever spoke to noticed and game me an elbow and wink about "making friends on the course".
I didn't say anything because for the sake of the length of the course it wasn't worth risking it being awkward, so the last day comes and we have to give this presentation, I was bricking it beyond belief and our presentation proper tanked but everyone said I was the most at ease of everyone on the course in front of these people (we pitched an advertising idea to global execs from Unilever). So after there was a party in some bar and she just sat with me for like 6 hours, not gettin drunk and I wouldn't say talking to me and no one else because that's not true. I asked her if she wanted to do something the next week and she was like ok, if it's summat good, so I was happy with that.
Then when we went home I sent her a txt saying I proper liked her, I know this was a ridiculously immature, naive and gutless approach but I only did it safe in the knowledge that when my phone beeped it would say "you too". It didn't. It said "wow wasn't expecting that, thanks", it was a little politer than that and some x's and whatnot but whatever, wasn't what I wanted or expected. The next mistake I made was not laughing it off, pretending it was no big deal and just sorting out where to go, I started askin if it was a bad thing and did she mind, all sorts of pathetic stuff. She said no she didnt mind and we could still go out.
SO, fast forward a week or so, hardly any word from her, the occasional txt but goes quiet when I actually ask to do something, but then when eveyone on the course talks, she's back to regular chatty self with me. I ran into her in town the other day as well, she'd finished work early otherwise it would have proper looked like I was stalking her, was a bit of a non event really, just went in a shop for 10 minutes and then went home.
Anyway, I know this is all proper long and I didn't mean it to be but what I wanna know is what to do? There is a party next week and everyone from the course is going so I'll defo see her again, and given its in manchester I'm guessing we'll go together, I mean if we don't then it'll definitely be off the cards all together but I really really like her, this sounds like a cliche but if I had written down everything I wanted in a girl, looks and personality wise, she would tick about 90% of the boxes, and the othe 10% would be the ignoring me part.
3 weeks ago I had people coming up to me for no reason telling me she was proper into me, now I have no idea and I don't know what to do, any advice?
Wow that's long, thanks for reading if you did.
So, I finished this course a couple of weeks ago, for 4 weeks, first day in I end up sitting next to the fittest girl there, get talking to her and it turns out me and her are the only ones from Bury, so I get the tram home with her and then to the course 3 days a week (she was somewhere else for 2). I liked her from day one and she was giving me these looks and sending txts and whatnot, I do a radio show on Mondays and she was listening to that (no one listens).
This gets to a point where my tutor asks me if we're already going out as he says she proper panders to me and stuff, never spoke up once in any group sessions until I was leading the session, even this woman who ran the course and we hardly ever spoke to noticed and game me an elbow and wink about "making friends on the course".
I didn't say anything because for the sake of the length of the course it wasn't worth risking it being awkward, so the last day comes and we have to give this presentation, I was bricking it beyond belief and our presentation proper tanked but everyone said I was the most at ease of everyone on the course in front of these people (we pitched an advertising idea to global execs from Unilever). So after there was a party in some bar and she just sat with me for like 6 hours, not gettin drunk and I wouldn't say talking to me and no one else because that's not true. I asked her if she wanted to do something the next week and she was like ok, if it's summat good, so I was happy with that.
Then when we went home I sent her a txt saying I proper liked her, I know this was a ridiculously immature, naive and gutless approach but I only did it safe in the knowledge that when my phone beeped it would say "you too". It didn't. It said "wow wasn't expecting that, thanks", it was a little politer than that and some x's and whatnot but whatever, wasn't what I wanted or expected. The next mistake I made was not laughing it off, pretending it was no big deal and just sorting out where to go, I started askin if it was a bad thing and did she mind, all sorts of pathetic stuff. She said no she didnt mind and we could still go out.
SO, fast forward a week or so, hardly any word from her, the occasional txt but goes quiet when I actually ask to do something, but then when eveyone on the course talks, she's back to regular chatty self with me. I ran into her in town the other day as well, she'd finished work early otherwise it would have proper looked like I was stalking her, was a bit of a non event really, just went in a shop for 10 minutes and then went home.
Anyway, I know this is all proper long and I didn't mean it to be but what I wanna know is what to do? There is a party next week and everyone from the course is going so I'll defo see her again, and given its in manchester I'm guessing we'll go together, I mean if we don't then it'll definitely be off the cards all together but I really really like her, this sounds like a cliche but if I had written down everything I wanted in a girl, looks and personality wise, she would tick about 90% of the boxes, and the othe 10% would be the ignoring me part.
3 weeks ago I had people coming up to me for no reason telling me she was proper into me, now I have no idea and I don't know what to do, any advice?
Wow that's long, thanks for reading if you did.
