Can't really move in with mum as the house is pretty crammed atm as I have two younger half brothers living there from her second marriage and there's not really a spare room for me.
I will go to CAB as soon as my local one is open, Wednesday hopefully.
For those querying whether this has come from the courts ie official, it has, this is an official 'Notice of Application of Earnings Order', I have to reply with form N56 (here
http://www.hmcourts-service.gov.uk/courtfinder/forms/n56_e.pdf).
This is just for part of the 10,000, I have other debts with debt collectors that haven't petitioned the court yet but are threatening to.
I am currently paying £100 a week for one room atm, not sure I'll get it much cheaper with bills inc, although I do have to pay electric.
Obviously I'll have to see what CAB say first but I'm definitely leaning towards bankruptcy atm.
OK first up I would start prioritising where you are spending your money. Looking at this thread from less than two weeks ago
http://forums.overclockers.co.uk/showthread.php?t=18217898 you are considering upgrading from a GTX460 to a GTX570 which costs hundreds of pounds. As someone in heavy debt contemplating bankruptcy, upgrading from what is already a high-end GPU to something even more extravagant should be way down the list. Plenty of people on these forums have a decent income and plenty of savings and even they don't have graphics cards as nice as a GTX460, never mind thinking about yet another upgrade.
I agree with you, but in reality you sometimes just ignore it thinking it won't get you until you get a wake up call which for me was the court order coming through the door and it slapped me in the face hard.
I know what I'm about to say sounds wrong but hopefully some people will understand, I need something in my room to keep me occupied, I have nothing else in my life, I can't live in a room with with just a TV in the corner, perhaps it's an addiction I don't know but what else do I have?
Alcohol has already been creeping it's way in as a coping mechanism, I know I've made mistakes and tbh am probably still making them but it's not easy.