stuff like this happens because of bad parenting. it's not meant to happen at 10 years old. are you seriously saying my attitude towards this is what's wrong with this country? i can't take you seriously. ''stuff happens'' , this isn't ''stuff'', this is purely unacceptable and bad parenting.
Yes, I do think your attitide is causing lots of harm and it's a great part of what's wrong with the country.
No matter what happens in our society we look for someone to blame.
We select them and villify them. They are the cause of all ills, everything else is ignored. We attack them in every way that we can, we mock them, we try to financially attack them. Then we move on to the next subject.
Everything has a cause, and someone is always to blame.
In Scotland we had an immense amount of snow fall, which was against (at least the BBC from the night before) the forecast. It started at 9am exactly on a Monday morning. The roads weren't gritted, and around my area of Scotland we were at a standstill for Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday.
It was a freak weather event, everything was "right" for it to go wrong. The Transport Minister for Scotland ended up resigning, since the media and public decided he was to blame.
It was the worst weather for 30 years in my area. Instead of just getting on with it people are saying the council don't have enough gritters and ploughs, and that we weren't prepared and it was his fault.
If we listened to the media and public then we'd have fleets of useless gritters and ploughs to maintain year after year until we get the one or two days like we had again.
There's prison riots on just now, I've not looked into that news story in any great detail. But BBC news seems to be just trying to work out who is to blame.
Again, somtimes horrible things happen. We can't prevent them all. We can try to prevent as much as we can, and make sure we are prepared for when the worst happens, but we can't stop everything all of the time.