When they say 'take care'....

contracteur · 27 Jan 2011 at 16:57

A "take care" and only one kiss? Mate you've been friendzoned.

dave1983 · 27 Jan 2011 at 16:58

ill grab my coat "take care"

Sp00n · 27 Jan 2011 at 17:00

Milkybk said:
Texting and getting rammed up the bottom, good multitasking.

Well she is a women... allegedly

Broadie · 27 Jan 2011 at 17:54

Abraham said:
Falling in love/starting a relationship is meant to be all about uncertainty and the risk of heartbreak, it is not about seeking reassurance from an internet computing forum.

Top comment there.

I am currently right in the middle of an uncertain time and my feelings for her are pretty strong right now and I told her that last week in a non-pressured polite way which made her giggle a bit...lets see what happens, though she hasn't contacted me for a week and I take that to mean 1. she is not really interested or 2. she is, but needs space to sort her feelings out. Either way the important thing is communication, without that nothing will happen and it will be difficult to remain friends after

To the OP, I used to over-analyse situations like this when I was younger and it drove me round the bend, if its gonna happen it will

s innes · 27 Jan 2011 at 17:55

‘nite take care x’.

Anyhow, question is… Is ‘take care’ a polite way for a girl to say ‘don’t bother anymore’? <-- this.

sounds to me like what she was really saying was god this is boring and i'm off to do sonething more interesting :eek:

but that is just my opinion and could very well be taken out of context given that you only posted part of the text :mad:

s innes · 27 Jan 2011 at 17:58

Broadie said:
Top comment there.

I am currently right in the middle of an uncertain time and my feelings for her are pretty strong right now and I told her that last week in a non-pressured polite way which made her giggle a bit...lets see what happens, though she hasn't contacted me for a week and I take that to mean 1. she is not really interested or 2. she is, but needs space to sort her feelings out. Either way the important thing is communication, without that nothing will happen and it will be difficult to remain friends after

To the OP, I used to over-analyse situations like this when I was younger and it drove me round the bend, if its gonna happen it will

looks like you she ran for the hills

and trying to remain freinds never works best to just walk away and forget about them and find someone else :cool:

Dirk · 27 Jan 2011 at 18:06

Sounds like she's concerned about your welfare.

Are you rich and did you meet her on russianbrides.com?

Broadie · 27 Jan 2011 at 18:20

s innes said:
looks like you she ran for the hills
and trying to remain freinds never works best to just walk away and forget about them and find someone else

nah, i dont call a hug and long kiss goodnight a prelude to running for the hills and we had been chatting for over 4 hours beforehand and getting on like a house on fire...

...truth is im busy during the day and she works in the evening, and i did get a text from her at the weekend

and i am still friends with a few exes, so that doesnt count either