Poll: Is it ever okay to 'cheat'?

Is it OK to be involved in "cheating"? (Scenario inside)

  • 1. It's absolutely fine to sleep with her. The 'morality' has absolutely nothing to do with me.

    Votes: 26 8.1%

  • 2. What I'm doing is a little wrong, but it's not really my problem so it's okay to sleep with her.

    Votes: 79 24.6%

  • 3. I'll do anything that moves. Situation doesn't come into it.

    Votes: 21 6.5%

  • 4. I'm not totally to blame, but I wouldn't do it as I feel I'm facilitating an immoral act.

    Votes: 60 18.7%

  • 5. I wouldn't sleep with her. I'd be just as guilty as she is.

    Votes: 135 42.1%
  • Total voters
    321
Voted 5, but it's not an exact match - I'd probably still do her. I've had it off with girls with boyfriends before, and I feel like hell about it, but I'm weak and easily tempted. Only ever once cheated on a girl of my own, and its one of the worst feelings I've ever inflicted on myself - I never really forgave myself or got over it, and I highly doubt I'd ever cheat on a girl again.

Regards to the other discussion point, if it's classed as a 'relationship' then it doesn't matter how fresh it is - it's still cheating. It's gotta get to the relationship stage first, though - going on a few dates doesn't mean you're involved with someone.
 
I don't know if I'm more worried about how many people here actually care if they cheat or if they sleep with someone who's cheating or the fact that It doesn't affect me in the slightest. :o Maybe something wrong with me. I should see a psychologist.
 
I was in an odd situation on Thursday, Been seeing someone I really like but we're not in a relationship yet.

Though I went out on Thursday and had quite a few chances to kiss etc with some girls, My mate was pulling them for me which was odd but I didn't want to do anything because I'd feel mega guilty on my next date.

So I'd have to say I wouldn't even go near.
 
Skyfall said:
I've been in this situation before and I slept with and saw the woman for some months, I would do it again too.
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Months is a bit much :/ I think that's when my position in the poll stops being #1. You're just as guilty as her (well not even, but you're far more guilty than you were previously) if you know she's still there leading her husband on. Get her to end it, or do it yourself.

Also sleeping with her for months on end or if you personally know the husband is a massive no-no for me. That's pretty different.

Wizzfizz said:
5.

No I wouldn't because I'm no home wrecker.
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The "home" is already wrecked if she wants to stand and bang with other men, wouldn't you say?
 
steve-h said:
The "home" is already wrecked if she wants to stand and bang with other men, wouldn't you say?
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"You do not know how strong the marriage is or any other variable regarding it, nor who the husband is".

Doesn't make it ok for me to have my way with her. At the end of the day she's married.
 
steve-h said:
Months is a bit much :/ I think that's when my position in the poll stops being #1. You're just as guilty as her (well not even, but you're far more guilty than you were previously) if you know she's still there leading her husband on. Get her to end it, or do it yourself.

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You're going to make her end it? LOL, you're going to take care of their kids too while you're at it? :rolleyes:
 
Totally immoral IMHO. It's true, I wouldn't class people who answered 1-3 as friends if I knew people like that. Wrecking other people's lives is not cool.
 
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arknor said:
lots without morals though.. wouldnt want them near me or my partner in real life
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Think this explains that part.

arknor said:
i havent had a friend since i moved to newcastle 10 years ago...

forever alone! i was married and wee still living together but were seperated....

if i move back to nottingham i instantly reclaim about 10 friends but if i stay up here to be near my son i have no one
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KaHn
 
Sleeping with someone who is in a relationship/married is one of the scummiest (imho obviously) things you can do.
 
KaHn said:
Think this explains that part.



KaHn
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ive not needed any friends in newcastle...
i had a wife for 10 years pal she was my life and we still live together for now , we dont argue etc , while i dont class her friends as mine i obviously still know them to talk to its not as if im some total loner...
i dont see what its got to do with cheating on people anyway...

ill tell you what KaHn if theres ever a newcastle meet ill turn up, i wont be what you are probably expecting and im sure you wont be as cocky either

http://www.ocukrogues.co.uk/people/KaHn
 
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I've done it once, she was unhappy in her relationship but lacked the strength to end it (would rather be in an unhappy relationship than not in one at all).

I was lonely due to having my heart broken a few months earlier and we really clicked, cue us hooking up for 2 months before she ended it. I didn't know her ex, so didn't really care.

Ended it with her almost 2 years later.

Look at it this way, if she was willing to cheat on her guy, then he is better off being shot of her. ;)

Wouldn't do it if she was married though.
 
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