Poll: Is it ever okay to 'cheat'?

Is it OK to be involved in "cheating"? (Scenario inside)

  • 1. It's absolutely fine to sleep with her. The 'morality' has absolutely nothing to do with me.

    Votes: 26 8.1%
  • 2. What I'm doing is a little wrong, but it's not really my problem so it's okay to sleep with her.

    Votes: 79 24.6%
  • 3. I'll do anything that moves. Situation doesn't come into it.

    Votes: 21 6.5%
  • 4. I'm not totally to blame, but I wouldn't do it as I feel I'm facilitating an immoral act.

    Votes: 60 18.7%
  • 5. I wouldn't sleep with her. I'd be just as guilty as she is.

    Votes: 135 42.1%

  • Total voters
    321
You're going to make her end it? LOL, you're going to take care of their kids too while you're at it? :rolleyes:

Yeah, why not? and I'm not sure when the kids start becoming my responsibility :confused: Maybe you could rephrase? I'm not sure what you were getting at.

theres an option missing

"i was raised with no morals and its what my father did"

Oh, so you weren't just drunk last night... :o

"You do not know how strong the marriage is or any other variable regarding it, nor who the husband is".

Doesn't make it ok for me to have my way with her. At the end of the day she's married.

How is the marriage strong if she's asking other guys to fill her pasty?

And yeah, you don't know who the husband is... if you did, personally, then that would be a bit off.
 
You're going to make her end it? LOL, you're going to take care of their kids too while you're at it? :rolleyes:

Huh?

Saying "ok we can be together if you end your current relationship but not before or if you don't" seems a perfectly reasonable stance to take.
 
Huh?

Saying "ok we can be together if you end your current relationship but not before or if you don't" seems a perfectly reasonable stance to take.

Yes but if she's married then there's a big chance she has kids and a new lover would have to accept the fact that they are included in the package if they decided to be together. That's all I'm saying. It's complicated.
 
*For arknor* Yes, i would love to partake in a bit of cheating - i don't see what's wrong with it

*For everyone else* I would never participate in cheating as my conscience would be at me. That and the fact that i'm happy in my relationship.
 
The way i understood the OP, the hypothetical question involved the woman propositioning you. There was no mention of looking after kids or anything, or even any kind of mid/long term relationship.

Personally, with these factors considered, if the woman in question does not indicate leaving her husband/you looking after kids etc, then i do not see that you are doing anything particularly morally wrong tbh.

It all depends on how seriously the 'realtionship' with the married woman is supposed to be. Obviously, i think that actively seeking to break up a marriage is wrong, but if that is not on the cards then it changes a lot imo.:)
 
You're single in this scenario.

Oh right.... hmmm might be harder. If she had a bf and had a long distance relationship - probably.

If she was married - probably not. Not worth the hassle potentially being woken up during the middle of the night with a psycho husband going crazy outside my house. However, guilt doesn't come into it - i just wouldn't want the hassle i don't think.
 
Why the vitriol guys? You disagree, that's cool.

I picked 4 but in reality it is either 4/2, this isn't a simple yes/no question for me :). I certainly would not go out of my way trying to smash her pasty if I knew she is in a relationship.
 
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