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Haha not that bad! With 2 separate girlfriends.

Usually comes about when they "miss a period" only for it to just be delayed by three or four days, or the most recent because wifey was on anti-biotics and you're sposed to revert to using a condom for a week after the course of anti-biotics, but we didn't wait a week, she missed her period, and we both panicked. Wasn't the most comforting scenario when you're half way through an £8k course with tonnes of student debt.
 
Have an abortion, no question. You're young and have many many years in which to have children, the next few years are about you developing as a person, going to uni, starting a career etc. You really don't want a kid getting in the way at your age.
 
StoutMeister said:
Really doctor? Please expand your theory and enlighten us.
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Well, I'm not a doctor, and nor do I claim to provide medical evidence, but the nurse at the sexual health clinic told us. She said before her little test came back that we're probably ok, and that it's often more difficult to get pregnant than you think.

That's why those who plan to have babies generally make sure they're on the ball with the woman's cycle to ensure that its the optimum time for the egg to be fertilised. Obviously sometimes it can only take that one time to get pregnant, but having unprotected sex isn't a guarantee of pregnancy.
 
icecold said:
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lol!!!

You'll be OK or you're just unlucky :(
 
engstrom0304 said:
Its worth saying shes been on the pill the whole time and is almost positive she hasnt missed any days.
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Girls sometimes get delays for a few days, my GF recently had a period late by a couple - was pretty intense waiting....

I would wait a little to get some proof.
 
been said but ebay it!! have you seen what people will do for a kid!?!!?

seriously - find out what you're dealing with first - facts - nothing else!

Then get all your parent in the same room and say whats what if it comes back positive. you'll be surprised at the amount of empathy people have when it's they're own kin and it shows that you have enough respect to admit you messed up and aren't entirely sure what to do with it so need some help and guidance - guidance is what parents do best!

If they are both in the room when you do it then there's no secrets and they can see first hand how the others have dealt with it and so can understand.

hope you can get it sorted.

i'm not a parent but that's what i would do if i were in the same boat. abortion is an option but not one i'd take lightly (especially secretly!) and i know people who have done that and its ruined their life!
 
She's probably just attention seeking, girls are like that.

She can't "think she might be pregnant", she either is or isn't. Get her a test to pee on and find out. Not finding out for sure is a pretty good sign that she isn't, and she's just dragging out, again; girls are like that.

My 2 cents.
 
Age: 17
Status: pregnant
Fail: yes

What on earth is wrong with teenagers over here? Just not responsible and mature enough to do anything these days.

Next time, use a condom. Also, just to be sure, ask her if she's taken the pill as well and if she says "not sure lolz, almost positive I have" then get rid for being an idiot.
 
LizardKing said:
99% of the time it does.
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Well my nephew was born when the mother was on the pill, they didn't find out about that until he was born... even then she didn't know straight away (the joys of general aesthetic?) :eek:

OP - for starters, don't make any decisions before you know the facts of the matter. Get her to **** on a stick man!
 
My ex brought an ultrasound picture of her baby brother to me one day claiming it was my child.
Hoes be crazy yo!

But seriously, tell the parents and get an abortion. A abortion isn't a quick easy fix, it can be very emotionally, physically and mentally troubling and she will likely need support.
 
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