Ever been in a relationship with a woman, where she was treated badly previously?

iamtheoneneo · 12 Dec 2011 at 15:29

is the OP joking? Im not actually sure if im being trolled here guys..

B@Th*nG · 12 Dec 2011 at 15:31

snake? snaakkee? SNAAAAAKKKEEEEE!?!

B@

TommyV · 12 Dec 2011 at 15:36

Dickyb0b said:
Basically i am in a new relationship with this girl and she has told me all about the previous guy she was with , should i go and talk to him about how he has treated her? or could she be lying?, also she said she wanted to get pregnant with him and start a family but he has failed to make her pregnant that's why she so unhappy..do men normally fail to get a women pregnant and expect to stay with her?

Every woman you'll go out with, who has an ex will say they were treated badly in the past.

ALL WOMEN.

cHk4 · 12 Dec 2011 at 15:39

Nah my other half is currently in a relationship where she is treated badly.

4T5 · 12 Dec 2011 at 15:39

Being honest you don't really want to hear that her last boyfriend was fabulous & treated her like a princess, I mean where's a Dude s'posed to go from there. :confused:

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The worse they have been treated previously the better you seem, Surely.

pingwing · 12 Dec 2011 at 15:40

TommyV said:
Every woman you'll go out with, who has an ex will say they were treated badly in the past.

ALL WOMEN.

Agreed, ex leaves toliet seat up = rapist ex

Women are worryingly predictable

shadow_boxer · 12 Dec 2011 at 15:44

skip to 25sec

But seriously, chances are shes is overexagerating it. Get her to speak to her GP, who may refer her to counselling. Best thing you can do is stay out of it.

Tolmekian · 12 Dec 2011 at 15:48

cHk4 said:
Nah my other half is currently in a relationship where she is treated badly.

To the OP (if we're not being trolled), you can tell from the responses that we've all been there, done that and it never ends well.

You'll only get hurt so just get out now.

waveydave79 · 12 Dec 2011 at 16:06

in the same situation as you. If you try to be a white knight then you will normally get burned. Leave it too long and you will be involved and these women can mess with your head. Trust me i know.

PapaLazaru · 12 Dec 2011 at 16:07

Tolmekian said:
You'll only get hurt so just get out now.

And go back to worrying about sirens, traffic, where dead birds go and where frogs have gone.

arknor · 12 Dec 2011 at 16:10

ops going to get traped by her! shes obviously desperate for a baby and a father for it.

oh yea im on the pill dont worry!
oh no dont worry i didnt stab a pinhole through that condom while it was inside its wrapper , it just split!

TrUz · 12 Dec 2011 at 16:12

Dickyb0b said:
Basically i am in a new relationship with this girl and she has told me all about the previous guy she was with , should i go and talk to him about how he has treated her? or could she be lying?, also she said she wanted to get pregnant with him and start a family but he has failed to make her pregnant that's why she so unhappy..do men normally fail to get a women pregnant and expect to stay with her?

No you don't go and speak to any of her ex's, it's not your place.

The pregnancy issue could be a problem with either of them, only tests will answer this.

Also, yes, she could well be lying.

^TANK^ · 12 Dec 2011 at 16:16

Murf · 12 Dec 2011 at 16:39

Two things........

Most people (not just women) blame past partners for their failings\insecurities. You shouldn't put up with this. If they won't trust you ditch the.

Secondly, be very careful about contraception. It's not that uncommon for insecure\mental people to lie about it and before you know it, bang, you've got a child to support and you can't escape.

cHk4 · 12 Dec 2011 at 16:41

Murf said:
Secondly, be very careful about contraception. It's not that uncommon for insecure\mental people to lie about it and before you know it, bang, you've got a child to support and you can't escape.

I remember meeting a women on a first date and she invited me back to her house along with the line of... I'm on the pill don't worry, you can't use a condom though, I'm allergic to them.... Think that was the first time I ever declined...

kylew · 12 Dec 2011 at 16:49

arknor said:
Op's going to get raped by her! She's obviously desperate for a baby and a father for it.

Fixed.

b.cummins · 12 Dec 2011 at 16:57

Tekgun said:
Hide any rabbits and GTFO.

Haggisman · 12 Dec 2011 at 17:00

waveydave79 said:
in the same situation as you. If you try to be a white knight then you will normally get burned. Leave it too long and you will be involved and these women can mess with your head. Trust me i know.

Listen to this man, he knows what he's talking about.

Run (and block her number from your phone)

Craig1981 · 12 Dec 2011 at 17:03

^ That should be you!

Murf · 12 Dec 2011 at 17:03

cHk4 said:
I remember meeting a women on a first date and she invited me back to her house along with the line of... I'm on the pill don't worry, you can't use a condom though, I'm allergic to them.... Think that was the first time I ever declined...

I've had 2 women stop taking contraception without telling me. Nutters. I actually found out about one from one of her friends. Beggars belief.

Still, there are plenty of mentally stable women out there, and once you've dated a few nutters it's easier to spot and avoid them.