Dilemma - To homewreck or not to homewreck

I wonder if the OP told the girl he wasn't interested anymore but then she went a bit mental and threatened to tell her BF? And lay it on like he came onto her etc.

Be realistic, if that did happen, who is the BF to believe, his GF or you OP? She has already proven she is ready to cheat freely so what is to say she isn't pure poison and wants to twist the whole situation back at you.

Jus' sayin'
 
easy d. All the other will except b will make you seem like a dick and you wont be proud of it and it will never work out if it goes that way and b wont work as you will see her again.
 
Changed my mind.

She is clearly not after a relationship - so don't expect one. Go in with your eyes open and your package wrapped. ^^
 
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elmarko1234 said:
To be honest, do you want to go out with a girl who cheats on her boyfriend when he's in the other room?.

Two years from now, some dude from this forum will be posting the same thing about YOUR girlfriend - to which we will LOL.
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How do you this is not the "post" you are mentioning now LMAO
 
Thanks one and all for the responses. I think it was helpful just to get it all out and sort the facts in my mind. Some hilarious posts there, but also some which clearly betray having been cheated on which has brought home the repurcussions of what is happening.

In my mind, she is confused about what to do. I think her feelings for me are genuine but she is hesitating on leaving her boyfriend, possibly for emotional reasons but also quite possibly because it is difficult to detach from a situation like that (especially when you live together).

I can't in all good conscience ignore her, so I guess it will be option d for me. If I was in her boyfs shoes, I guess I would be devastated if my gf had feelings for someone else, but then again what can you do - you can't help who you fall in love with. Saying that, if something does happen and he wants to smack me then I'll give him one for free. :)

p.s. omg is she HAWT! Well, at least I think so. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that. :)
 
nero120 said:
Thanks one and all for the responses. I think it was helpful just to get it all out and sort the facts in my mind. Some hilarious posts there, but also some which clearly betray having been cheated on which has brought home the repurcussions of what is happening.

In my mind, she is confused about what to do. I think her feelings for me are genuine but she is hesitating on leaving her boyfriend, possibly for emotional reasons but also quite possibly because it is difficult to detach from a situation like that (especially when you live together).

I can't in all good conscience ignore her, so I guess it will be option d for me. If I was in her boyfs shoes, I guess I would be devastated if my gf had feelings for someone else, but then again what can you do - you can't help who you fall in love with. Saying that, if something does happen and he wants to smack me then I'll give him one for free. :)

p.s. omg is she HAWT! Well, at least I think so. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that. :)
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Your future girlfriend knows she is going to be your future girlfriend and is still letting her current boyfriend put his sausage in her over and over again. Doesn't that strike you as less than honourable behaviour and perhaps not the girl for you?
 
SuperBOB said:
Your future girlfriend knows she is going to be your future girlfriend and is still letting her current boyfriend put his sausage in her over and over again. Doesn't that strike you as less than honourable behaviour and perhaps not the girl for you?
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It's not that simple. Besides, I don't know what is happening behind the scenes, perhaps their relationship has grown colder as a result of this, perhaps not. I guess I'll see how things play out, if it is evident that she is clearly not trust worthy then I'll leave well alone. The only thing she is guilty of right now is wanting to spend time with me and a few little kisses. If that makes her a cheating ho then I call that harsh! Though I do acknowledge that it's not cricket.
 
A mate did this with a lass, the lass cheated on her current boyfriend in a similar way this lass is. She eventually broke up with her lad and went with my mate. 3 months down the line, she seemingly stopped talking to him and they broke up.

I'd not want to go with a girl like that, chances are she'll just do it again. If she told her boyfriend and split up with him pretty quickly, then I might give it a chance, but not if she carried on.
 
Only read the first few lines of this post. If she can go back to your place WITH her boyfriend of 3 years and after her boyfriend passes out have a crack at you then whats to stop her doing it to you. Once a cheat ALWAYS a cheat
 
nero120 said:
It's not that simple. Besides, I don't know what is happening behind the scenes, perhaps their relationship has grown colder as a result of this, perhaps not. I guess I'll see how things play out, if it is evident that she is clearly not trust worthy then I'll leave well alone. The only thing she is guilty of right now is wanting to spend time with me and a few little kisses. If that makes her a cheating ho then I call that harsh! Though I do acknowledge that it's not cricket.
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It is that simple, she'd being dishonest to her boyfriend, what's to say she wont do exactly the same to you further down the line? And well, I'd class kissing someone on several occasions cheating, so a dirty cheating ho she is :p
 
How often did she contact you in the intervening weeks between your first meeting and your birthday? If she was that into you I imagine she would have made some attempt at least... That in itself is a little red flag for this particular situation imo.
 
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