Dilemma - To homewreck or not to homewreck
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Okay OCUK, I give. I will endeavour to forget her, but if we do happen to see each other again, and we find ourselves slipping back into old habits then I will tell her straight, she needs to break up with her boyfriend if this is to go anywhere else, otherwise leave it alone.
If she does break up with him, then I will give her the benefit of the doubt and be with her. If not, then screw it, I'm buying a new suit. Happy?
Don't worry, I'll be sure to post back here if something develops, as I know behind the harsh words you all really want love to win out in the end!
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Quite the sensible choice.
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Although you should not have had to ask.
Okay OCUK, I give. I will endeavour to forget her, but if we do happen to see each other again, and we find ourselves slipping back into old habits then I will tell her straight, she needs to break up with her boyfriend if this is to go anywhere else, otherwise leave it alone.
If she does break up with him, then I will give her the benefit of the doubt and be with her. If not, then screw it, I'm buying a new suit. Happy?
Don't worry, I'll be sure to post back here if something develops, as I know behind the harsh words you all really want love to win out in the end!
Good attitude, but I'd be slightly more open to making it more slow burning if it gets you the same result, as opposed to 'now or never'.
It's not a game though is it.
Life in its entirety is one big game.
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Don't hate the player, hate the game.
Only similar game is Russian roulette, one of those that should not be played.
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Okay OCUK, I give. I will endeavour to forget her, but if we do happen to see each other again, and we find ourselves slipping back into old habits then I will tell her straight, she needs to break up with her boyfriend if this is to go anywhere else, otherwise leave it alone.
If she does break up with him, then I will give her the benefit of the doubt and be with her. If not, then screw it, I'm buying a new suit. Happy?
Don't worry, I'll be sure to post back here if something develops, as I know behind the harsh words you all really want love to win out in the end!
Why not meet other women, ones who aren't in a relationship already? There are thousands and thousands of them. Don't put your life on hold wondering if you're going to bump into this girl again, be awesome and meet better people.
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Okay OCUK, I give. I will endeavour to forget her, but if we do happen to see each other again, and we find ourselves slipping back into old habits then I will tell her straight, she needs to break up with her boyfriend if this is to go anywhere else, otherwise leave it alone.
If she does break up with him, then I will give her the benefit of the doubt and be with her. If not, then screw it, I'm buying a new suit. Happy?
Don't worry, I'll be sure to post back here if something develops, as I know behind the harsh words you all really want love to win out in the end!
Make sure shes honest with her bf if she chooses the option to leave him. Dont allow a fellow man to be cheated like that..
To be honest you should just straight up tell her nothing will happen and find another fish instead of messing with someones happyness now or in the long.
Thats all I have to say really. Fact is youve already done something horrible to there relationship by kissing her.
Rubbish, generic throwaway rubbish.
I was a serial cheater until I met my wife. I haven't cheated in all the time we have been together, 1993.
"Once a cheater always a cheater"
This thread sounds like an episode of Oprah.
People do actually change, thankfully. Probably getting this attitude because it's a women and not a man doing the cheating.
Ah so you "where" a serial cheater until you met your wife. Have you ever been married before?
You have to accept that with the inevitable hilarity of some of the responses that have been given, some people will be highly opposed and others will be sympathetic. I think the point of asking in a public forum like this shows they the OP needs to hear it all. Better to hear everyones opinion and draw what he can than just hear the sympathy OR the angry messages. When it comes down to it mate - He asked for it - we simply replied.
I have no problem with the responses, some of them have made me laugh.
It was more the OP and others attitudes that it was OK to mess about with a girl/boy that was already in a relationship. It is not a cool thing to do.
It was more the OP and others attitudes that it was OK to mess about with a girl/boy that was already in a relationship. It is not a cool thing to do.
Ahhh. +1 then =]
It's simple really.
Stay well clear of her and if she wants to get together with you, let her get rid of her current BF and then the two of you can start seeing each other.
What is happening here is that she is testing the waters to see if your worth breaking up with her current BF for.
Stay well clear of her and if she wants to get together with you, let her get rid of her current BF and then the two of you can start seeing each other.
What is happening here is that she is testing the waters to see if your worth breaking up with her current BF for.
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As others have said, once a cheater always a cheater !
You may not agree but if she is happy in kissing you whilst she is dating someone else what's going to stop her when the glitter has worn off your relationship.
Ask yourself, do you need the stress in your life as this will never end well ?
You may not agree but if she is happy in kissing you whilst she is dating someone else what's going to stop her when the glitter has worn off your relationship.
Ask yourself, do you need the stress in your life as this will never end well ?
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+1 to the above.
While that initial kissing/snogging electric phase of the relationship is a remarkably lovely thing to have, do you really want it to be cheating? Maybe you aren't bothered and think her BF is a ****, but if I were him and I found out, would not hesitate to seek you out and kick your ass a few times. You might not like to hear this, but imo this sort of thing is just not on. Sure it happens, but the chick has to put up or shut up if you mean so much to her.
Women have the ability to make us cloud or own judgement based on very strong animal impulses. THINK man, THINK!
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LOL!!!!!!!!! WIN