Those three words...

Matterez · 2 Mar 2012 at 22:32

Friends with benefits. I have been summoned to this; with a very hot girl, I've known her a long time, but I don't love her or anything. I realise that I'm boasting; but I can't tell anybody

Do any of you's have/or have had the same situation?
Do you think it can work?
Or do you think it's always doomed to fail

Mat · 2 Mar 2012 at 22:33

It will all end in tears.

qqg3 · 2 Mar 2012 at 22:33

Lacking photographical evidence.

Morgoth · 2 Mar 2012 at 22:33

Usually the only 3 words I hear from a girl are "PLEASE GOD NO!"

StoutMeister · 2 Mar 2012 at 22:36

Is it in?

Tom0 · 2 Mar 2012 at 22:36

Stop over-thinking;

ChroniC · 2 Mar 2012 at 22:37

Currently in this situation but its very very complicated, been in it before and I know for a fact this time won't end any better than the last.
1 rule, never, I mean never tell the other person you like them and have had started having feelings for them. (if you want that to happen you have to let them say it first)
It always ends it if the guy says it before the girl, and your good thing has been completely ruined by your inability to control your emotions. You need to go ******** spock on this seriously.

I can tell your already going to fail, as your so happy and you said shes super fit, so clearly your thinking will turn that into feelings I guarentee it. The sheer fact that you've asked whether it can work means you want it to, so your thinking about her. It's very hard to detach yourself from thinking with your downstairs brain, but the upstairs one needs to be used to play these situation to the maximum benefits.

101001101 · 2 Mar 2012 at 22:37

Smash her to mars and back

Its easy if you have th experience if you dont its hell but its not easy until you ride through the hell

....decision time big man

sigma · 2 Mar 2012 at 22:38

I am pregnant?

yhack · 2 Mar 2012 at 22:39

That was quick.

Matterez · 2 Mar 2012 at 22:39

That was a lot of fast replies :eek:

It's nice to get some helpful views and I see most people agree with my fear of everything ending badly...

LordSplodge · 2 Mar 2012 at 22:40

Depends if you value the friendship or just like having lots of uncomplicated* sex.

* Uncomplicated for the first few times but it's going to bite you in the bottom. Just try to judge when and get out before it does.

101001101 · 2 Mar 2012 at 22:41

Fear is just an experience just smash her big time and be a fun guy and all will be good, if your super seirous weirdo then thats when it gets a bit too much

Make it fun and she'll follow your lead, its up to you hero

panyan · 2 Mar 2012 at 22:42

Mat said:
It will all end in tears.

+1...

cm1179 · 2 Mar 2012 at 22:42

yeh. ends in tears and the loss of the friendship.

101001101 · 2 Mar 2012 at 22:43

.....these guys are wrong, if you make it fun and no big deal it wont be, she'll follow your lead.

Its simple.

101001101 · 2 Mar 2012 at 22:44

.....just dont fall in love with her......

sigma · 2 Mar 2012 at 22:44

101001101 said:
.....these guys are wrong, if you make it fun and no big deal it wont be, she'll follow your lead.

Its simple.

Women are never simple.

dbmzk1 · 2 Mar 2012 at 22:45

It works great so long as no one develops any additional emotional attachments. Then you're screwed, pardon the pun!

Matterez · 2 Mar 2012 at 22:47

She won't develop emotions, I'm not her first friend with benefits; she knows what she's doing... And I'm confident in myself; I know that seems naive...