Those three words...

Take life this way, its about enjoying myself and progressing, if this girl doesnt love me another will so i will take from her what i can and bring it to my next conquest...... simple make her laugh, take it seriously and she will leave, but, if she tells you she loves you and wants to marry you then mix it up make her lauhg but be serious when you need to be, its all about the mix
 
Do any of you's have/or have had the same situation?
- Was offered but said no.

Do you think it can work?
- Depends. You need to understand (thinking with your upstairs brain not your downstairs brain) whether she has feelings for you. If she does and you want to stay friends, don't smash. If she does and you don't really want to stay friends, smash. If she doesn't, smash.
 
Enjoy it while you can mate. It WILL end in tears.

Maybe when it's ended and you bump into each other a few years down the line then ......
 
Enjoy it! It probably won't last long as this sort of situation tends not to!

Make the most of it while you can!
 
I've made it work a few times, it's no biggy. Just make sure you don't become emotionally attached and likewise make sure she doesn't. If there's a hint of jealousy as to either you seeing somebody else or her seeing somebody else thus making you jealous, then end it immediately. It can only go wrong in that situation.

Aside from that, enjoy yourself. It's every mans ideal situation for when he wants to remain a free spirit.
 
Matterez said:
Friends with benefits. I have been summoned to this; with a very hot girl, I've known her a long time, but I don't love her or anything. I realise that I'm boasting; but I can't tell anybody :p

Do any of you's have/or have had the same situation?
Do you think it can work?
Or do you think it's always doomed to fail :(
Click to expand...

Have/had the position a few times.

Depends how friendly you are with them. There is one girl, she stays about 50miles away but her Mum lives near me so when she visits she will pop round to mine. But we ain't really friends, I mean we'll have the odd chat now and then but that works great.

Actual friends I've had then it never really works so well.
 
People think too much, do it, enjoy that part of your life, look back, learn.
You'll only get hurt if you let yourself, as in, if you can keep it mutual then there's no problem, if she decides to have feelings well that's not your problem now is it.

What is life without risk, it's not like you're going into a warzone, starting a fight, driving wrecklessly, doing some extreme sports; it's sex, grow the **** up. Yes, I'm being blunt.
If you get hurt emotionally then so be it, now you know what it's like and hopefully rather than give up everything you'll learn from this and be better prepared.

But so what, you'll look back and think, awww yeah I got my willy wet.
 
Every "friend" I banged was no longer as close or even a friend after the banging ceased, just in case you weren't expecting this.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Back
Top Bottom