Shall I risk it with this girl?

[secretspy]

Sounds like she was probly fiddled as a kid tbh.

Yes because that happening to someone makes them want to sleep around

Although you want advice you really have to just go with your gut instinct. Otherwise people will give their personal opinions and you'll probably end up feeling even more confused. If you're not sure right now perhaps hold back for a while and not see her that much or not at all so that you can have time to properly think it through.

My only advice would be always follow your gut instinct.

 

[Deadbeat]

If a key can open a bunch of locks, it’s viewed as a master key and is awesome to have. But if a lock is opened by a lot of different keys, well that’s a pretty ****ty lock if you ask me.

What a well-reasoned point. You've managed to simplify the issue so much that your analogy, though mildly humourous, has nothing whatsoever to do with the matter at hand.

It doesn't bother me in the slightest how many guys my partners have slept with before. I can't remember the last time I bothered to ask - what difference does it make? She's with me now, and I'm only one guy.

 

[Soundood]

Need pics to decide

this.

if shes a hoofer, then get rid

on the other hand,

if she looks like this, then accept all abuse, and heart brake you can handle to stay on it.

any excuse to get Doctor Girlfriend in

 

[marmalade]

Basically remember a happy woman is a servin woman:
just enough links in the chain to the kitchen and the bedroom. A link too few disaster, a link too many disaster - judgin them links - it aint always easy!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ltzNgfUmwMU

 

[Psycho Sonny]

If a key can open a bunch of locks, it’s viewed as a master key and is awesome to have. But if a lock is opened by a lot of different keys, well that’s a pretty ****ty lock if you ask me.

 

[Disco Boy]

Keep banging her.

 

[steve-h]

Double standards like I said, which frankly stinks.

Well not really.

I'm not saying that sleeping with a ton of people is a bad thing at all, but it's hardly worth the same amount of praise if we're talking about a girl.

Guys are typically the pursuers, the ones who have to put in the graft to get a bit... girls literally only have to go up to a guy and ask him if he wants to come back with her.

 

[Philtor]

Keep her around for some fun, she isn't girlfriend material though.

Agreed.

 

[Alex74]

Seems like a fair few posters are still living in the wrong century

 

[knip]

Seems like a fair few male posters are still living in the wrong century

Corrected for you

 

[Megahurtz400]

Keep smashing her. but don't go out with her or get too emotionally involved.

Therefore, you get to smash a fit bird, and then dont get hurt!

WIN WIN!

 

[steve-h]

Corrected for you

do you not agree with my post?

 

[wannabedamned]

She stopped sleeping around when she was with the Army lad. Seems to me like she's trust worthy.

Single Uni girl has lots of sex with different people....I dont see where the problem is.

a lot of posters here are saying run for the hills, I think they have a sheltered and somewhat deluded view of women. Women like sex, and have lots of it.... Shock!

 

[Malc]

25 different people at 19 is a lot. Making a lot of assumptions due to knowing lasses like that at her age, she'll probably have confidence and self image issues and be using sex as some sort of validation. After all, who doesn't crave the attention of others?

It'd not particularly bother me but I'd be wary that she might become a bit of a handful. I don't think trust will be an issue really.

Oh and get tested! If 1 in 10 people have chlamydia, she's got it twice!

 

[piggeh]

Stupid thread, not one pic.

It sounds like you already have feelings for her. The only way you would find out if she's serious is to 'suck it and see'. Maybe you'll get hurt, whatever, not the end of the world, plenty of other fish etc etc..

 

[Aedus]

OP won't listen anyway, he'll just give it a go regardless of what we all say and inevitably get his heart broken when someone better comes along with a: "I don't know what I want" maybe even a "It's not you, it's me". The girl is a ****, realistically looking at starting sex from the age of 14, and having slept with 25 people since then. 5 people a year, and even 5 people since she's been to uni which was 7 months ago.

Avoid like the plague until proves otherwise, but you can still smash, like I said before, hope you're been wrapping the ham.

 

[SideWinder]

Keep it as fun. She won't want anything serious whereas i think you might do.

 

[knip]

The girl is a ****, realistically looking at starting sex from the age of 14, and having slept with 25 people since then. 5 people a year, and even 5 people since she's been to uni which was 7 months ago.

and a bloke who'd slept with that many people wouldn't be?

 

[wannabedamned]

You think sleeping with 5 different people over a year makes you a ****? really?

 

[Psycho Sonny]

OP won't listen anyway, he'll just give it a go regardless of what we all say and inevitably get his heart broken when someone better comes along with a: "I don't know what I want" maybe even a "It's not you, it's me". The girl is a ****, realistically looking at starting sex from the age of 14, and having slept with 25 people since then. 5 people a year, and even 5 people since she's been to uni which was 7 months ago.

Avoid like the plague until proves otherwise, but you can still smash, like I said before, hope you're been wrapping the ham.

5 people a year isn't a lot, there was a girl at uni that used to do 3 different guys in a day on the weekends, now that's what you call a ****.

also if your going out clubbing regularly which every uni student does, one night stands do tend to add up.

a mate of mine even managed 5 in a day in amsterdam