Promiscuous girls/women

lemonkettaz said:
Girls are more cunning about it.

Men and Women "play" about, but men are bad at it.

Women can do it better, plus all the power is in their hands, they can pick and choose... we cant.

If you think im talking rubbish, trust me im not. I find that relationships arent strong after 2years, then the girls are very happy to play and also the lads.

not 100% of the time though so everyone here in a good relationship chill out ha :)
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LOL once ladies hit 30 they become the predators and it's the guy who has the power.
 
Spenty said:
I wasn't talking about 10+. I was referring to the ones who have been round everyone. More like 50+
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TBH, the way you're putting yourself over I'm surprised that you've placed your arbitrary number so high.

That's not meant as a sarcastic pop at your or anything, but I think you may have a few issues with sex.

And yes, prostitution is perfectly fine as long as it's monitored and everyone is consenting adults; why wouldn't it be?

Sex and love are two different things, they don't always have to be so entwined if it's not in a relationship.
 
Pate said:
My silly view? Why is my view silly?

And why would you not respect someone's viewpoint enough? If she wanted to shag around then that's fair enough, but it took my interest in her away once I found out. That and the fact she LIED about something so important in a relationship.



I would certainly hope women enjoy sex, when I'm married or with the girl I want to be with, it's going to be a most fun ride for the next 50 years. I haven't wait til my early twenties for a few shags a month. :p

It's not relevant to the issue.
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When she was with you, she wasn't shagging around. Why does it matter if she isn't a virgin, and why does it matter that she's had sex with a few people before you? Is it a jealously thing?

Your view makes no sense, you are removing yourself from the ability of achieving true happiness as you'll find it difficult to find someone that fits what you are looking for because of foolishly ruling out those who have had sex before.

Why did it take your interest away from her? How petty is that!

She lied to protect you and your relationship because she clearly wanted to be with you.
 
I could never have a relationship with a girl like this. It's fine to just have fun with, but for relationship material it's too much (sloppy seconds etc!)

I mean, girlfriend material doesn't have to be a virgin! Just that if they count their sexual partners in centuries like a cricket score it's no deal!
 
Ahleckz said:
When she was with you, she wasn't shagging around. Why does it matter if she isn't a virgin, and why does it matter that she's had sex with a few people before you? Is it a jealously thing?

Your view makes no sense, you are removing yourself from the ability of achieving true happiness as you'll find it difficult to find someone that fits what you are looking for because of foolishly ruling out those who have had sex before.
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Read my previous posts again, I have said that it's not a solid rule, and indeed I knew she had a previous sexual partner. Stop trying to make me out to be completely odd.

The issue is with multiple sexual partners. It's not a jealously thing, more that I enjoy a private life, and would like to think that a prospective wife would be able to share the same sort of privacy.
 
Pate said:
Read my previous posts again, I have said that it's not a solid rule, and indeed I knew she had a previous sexual partner. Stop trying to make me out to be completely odd.

The issue is with multiple sexual partners. It's not a jealously thing, more that I enjoy a private life, and would like to think that a prospective wife would be able to share the same sort of privacy.
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What? How does having sex with a few people mean that you can't have a private life.
 
wtf is wrong with you people?

why has nobody asked the OP what his home town is?

and when does the ocuk road trip leave?
 
If a girl/woman wants to hump anything that walks then so be it as long as she does it right by which I mean she uses protection and has regular check ups at a clinic. Could it just be that these lasses enjoy sex a lot? If that is what they enjoy and are not hurting anybody then where is the problem? So what if she has had half the town, if she has then at least she should have a good idea on what to do with pecker when she sees one.

Men who sleep about get called a stud by their mates yet woman get called s**** and all sorts of things, double standards much?

Stoner81.
 
Ahleckz said:
Why did it take your interest away from her? How petty is that!

She lied to protect you and your relationship because she clearly wanted to be with you.
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Answered before this edit.


It took my interest away because:

1- I would like a degree of exclusivity. Me remaining sex free has not been easy, in fact it's been ****ing hard most of the time. I'm a red blooded male and Lord knows what I'm missing. However I do it, because it's something that someone will recognise as an issue of trust. The girl I sleep with will know (mainly because I'll be terrible apparently :D) that I've waited for her. Now that's my viewpoint and it's not fair or realistic to have something so "strict" for others, especially in this society. However there is a common level of trust, and I don't think I could have the piece of mind if someone had been sleeping around. Again, could have been different if she had been honest, who knows?


P.s I don't want someone lying to protect my relationship. What good is that for the long term?
 
Ahleckz said:
What? How does having sex with a few people mean that you can't have a private life.
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Because I would want sex with myself and a particular person to be something we had just experienced ourselves, rather than with someone who's watched the ceiling more times than I've had hot meals.



Stoner81 said:
If a girl/woman wants to hump anything that walks then so be it as long as she does it right by which I mean she uses protection and has regular check ups at a clinic. Could it just be that these lasses enjoy sex a lot? If that is what they enjoy and are not hurting anybody then where is the problem? So what if she has had half the town, if she has then at least she should have a good idea on what to do with pecker when she sees one.

Men who sleep about get called a stud by their mates yet woman get called s**** and all sorts of things, double standards much?

Stoner81.
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I'm completely against mysognism, 100%. I will rebuke anyone who calls a woman a ****. We each do what we want to do, I've no issue with that.
 
Pate said:
Because I would want sex with myself and a particular person to be something we had just experienced ourselves, rather than with someone who's watched the ceiling more times than I've had hot meals.
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There's your problem. Get a girl that doesn't do missionary ;)

Are you a religious man Pate?
 
Ahleckz said:
Men sleep around as much as women. There is nothing wrong with it providing they are being safe.



lol. She obviously knew about your silly view and because she wanted to be with you, she didn't let on the whole story. Sounds pretty honourable to me.
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Lying after five months in a relationship about something as fundamental as that? Dude was waiing for marriage, the girl gas revolving door instead of flaps, best they separate.
 
Pate said:
Answered before this edit.


It took my interest away because:

1- I would like a degree of exclusivity. Me remaining sex free has not been easy, in fact it's been ****ing hard most of the time. I'm a red blooded male and Lord knows what I'm missing. However I do it, because it's something that someone will recognise as an issue of trust. The girl I sleep with will know (mainly because I'll be terrible apparently :D) that I've waited for her. Now that's my viewpoint and it's not fair or realistic to have something so "strict" for others, especially in this society. However there is a common level of trust, and I don't think I could have the piece of mind if someone had been sleeping around. Again, could have been different if she had been honest, who knows?


P.s I don't want someone lying to protect my relationship. What good is that for the long term?
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There will be exclusivity, no one will have had sex with you and her before.

It's not an issue of trust, and by you claiming it is then you're suggesting that those who have sex with more than one person before 'settling' down aren't trust worthy. Explain how it shows trust by 'waiting' for the one.

You forced her into a position where she felt she had to lie because she wanted the relationship to succeed. She knew that you'd 'spack' (cheers Moses) off and fly off the handle and get rid of her once you found out the truth for no reason other than your silly, misguided, foolish rules.
 
Hikari Kisugi said:
Lying after five months in a relationship about something as fundamental as that? Dude was waiing for marriage, the girl gas revolving door instead of flaps, best they separate.
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Why is the number of people that you have slept with a fundamental thing in a relationship?
 
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