how dyou figure?
even more confused
You're the one that told us you treat drinks like Pringles.
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You're the one that told us you treat drinks like Pringles.
There is the problem then, you admit that money is tight and then go out and spend it on beer, women worry about these things even more so when they are tired stressed and trying to raise a new born baby.
Grow up, Man up and except you have responsibilities now that may mean you have to lay off the beer on your day off (not that such things exist when you have a baby) for the forseable future!
That's interesting. Now what bits have you missed out which explain why your partner has just run off?
Don't lie to yourself over it, be honest. If you're honest with yourself you'll answer why she did what she did.
Women are always testing us. By you coming home with something for yourself only she sees it as you being selfish and not caring about her looking after your baby all day. If you had come home with your beers and a small something for her it would have been different, she would have thought great he was thinking about me too. Its as simple as that to be honest. I have learnt this over many years 
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Women are always testing us. By you coming home with something for yourself only she sees it as you being selfish and not caring about her looking after your baby all day. If you had come home with your beers and a small something for her it would have been different, she would have thought great he was thinking about me too. Its as simple as that to be honest. I have learnt this over many years
Doesnt work if the OP's Mrs's is already concerned about his drinking - she will see the cans and think "oh god not again...i really wanted him sober today"
what are you talking about? how do you know I think about "me" all the time
Im completely exhausted, I WORK all day and night just to pay TAX for the coffers to dish out to the unemployed
The time i have at the end of each night i cuddle my daughter on my day off i like a couple of beers whilst on FSX
read my opening post! I dont understand why she flipped when i bought 4 Coors beers i really dont
man up? what does that mean? its so easy to type it though
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You've admitted to having issues controlling your drinking, and coupled with the fact that drinking to get away from life's stresses is the start of a very slippery slope.
How about cuddling your daughter for a bit longer today and save those oh so marvelous beers for later..? < That is what people mean about manning up, put that little life you helped create first, before your 'need' to have a drink
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dont you think most men are in this position when they have kids? do you not think her job as a mum isnt 24/7 and maybe she thought you would chip in on your day off so she got some rest too? it only takes a few months or so out of your life to not play FSX and drink EVERY day off, maybe do alternate mondays. so every other monday you look after the baby so she can do what she wants, and the following monday you can do what you want?
Let me spell it out for you, your wife has a 24/7 job bringing up a baby she doesn't get a day off she isn't even fully recovered from the birth yet, she is tired, stressed and worried about money. She see's you having a day off playing computer games and spending what little money you have on beer for yourself of course there is a chance she will flip out you muppet.
You have a new baby - you don't get A DAY OFF. And given that you have already stated you have issues with drink, is it any wonder your partner has left the house? Your first thought on your day off is to buy alcohol and spend the time doing what YOU wanted, rather than helping her or seeing the baby.
how about thinking - i've got a day off - i'll spend it with my missus and the kids. We all pay taxes so that has to be the most stupidest reason ever.
This has to be a wind up - you have a day off and buy beers and want to sit and play the pc!!! any wonder the missus up sticks and left.
enough! the only post I took anything from was from SPIT he's right, maybe a little something to let her now i am still thinking about her
the rest is femenistic "peel your a*s from the sofa stop watching jeremy kyle" garbage
the rest is femenistic "peel your a*s from the sofa stop watching jeremy kyle" garbage