When I was about 3 both parents had a job and a mortgage, they had a speed boat, 2 cars etc and things were on the up and up, They had just paid for fees on another house to be inspected and put an offer in, things were good then Mum fell ill.... within 24 hours she was in hospital in a critical condition a further 12 hours later she was in a coma, she didn't wake for a further 4 months, by which time they had lost the other house and all the fees applicable when moving, Mum lost her job as she clearly was never going to go back to that job (yes she got a pay out but it was only small, She was a trainee accountant and only 24 so hadn't been working for long enough to have warranted a large pay out) but worst of all, she lost every finger on both of her hands meaning there was very little she could do in terms of work, and So became the struggle of living on 1 income with a 3 yr old and a mortgage. Obviously the speed boat went and we moved to a small house as soon as was possible and things started to look up. Dad started a business with his family which again was doing well (Carpet cleaning company) until someone stole the van and stripped it of the equipment essentially shutting the company down for well over a month while insurance claims went through etc etc etc....
Please, explain to me how any of this was THERE fault? How was my mum falling ill and losing all of her fingers and the ability to work HER fault.
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