Oh and this is surely wrong...
2560by1600 is 4,096,000 pixels,
5760x1080 is 6,220,800 pixels, so about 51% more pixels to calculate and draw.
"add them together" LOL
Look over it again, all the maths is atleast vaguely correct by my reckoning

Now this is interesting...
I'm in the same boat as the OP.
The thing is if I go 680s I'd get 2 4GB versions. If I went 670s I'd get 3 2GB version (as there are a limited amount of manufacturers making 4GB cards). So with the 680s I'd not need the 4GB VRAM but with the 670s I would.
Why wont people hurry up and make 4GB 670s with decent coolers! (I'm not patient enough to wait. I think I'm doing well by waiting until the 18th for the 4GB KFA2s!)
Also, for Tri-SLI, would Windforce (or similar) cooler be best or are you better off with reference cooler to exhaust heat? (Although I do risk Scougar not speaking to me if I get reference coolers).
Hopefully I've kept this relevant and not hijacked the thread.
What you need to consider is that the only time you need 4gb is when you go tri SLI 670 or tri/quad SLI 680 or 690+680 or 690 quad fire.
Other than that, 2gb will be enough as the further 2gb will not be used due to te lack of GPU power.
Have you considered watercooling?
Otherwise, I'd get reference cards unless your case has really good airflow.
EVGA currently have the only 4gb 670s

That's pretty cool though..