3 breakups is a lot!
You've done sort of what iv done (I'm paying the price for it too) where you end up spending time together where its a big block, so being apart is weird, but after a while being together that much is grating and stupid, so there's no mid point of normal relationship.
My advice just do what ever you want, if its going to work out you'll both come to an understanding. If it doesn't you'll both grow and see what you want/need from a relationship.
Also its REALLY unhealthy to have one side telling the other what they can and cannot do. If nothing else you both should be happy to have your own lives regardless of the other person.
Oh and non serious answers, poo in her letter box or send her a picture of your wang.
Well basically shes just gone back on everything she said before. Prevoiusly she done this push pull tattic, and then said I wasnt able to see any of my friends.
My head is now one big mess. There is also one other thing in the equasion. She wanted to get a dog.
Her mum is going away in 1 weeks time, we are supposed to be picking up the dog then on the 3rd June, Her mum has turned around and siad to me that she does not want it in the house, made me promise this, she is trying to make me counter promise. So now I am stuck between a rock and a hard post.
The way I see it, it wont matter what stance I take here, Its going to be a puppy, it will pee, chew things, have accidents, so if she goes agiast her mums wishes shes betraying her mums trust. She called me today going crazy on the phone blaming me. After getting mad and slamming the phone down on me, I emailed her back to say I simply would not buy the pup.
Basically she is aggrophobic, has to go home when she is ill, manipulative, and a complete controller. Right now, I cant think striaght, and feel it would be best just to end it.
With being at home not having her at home, I am also on Propranolol tablets, I had to goto the doctor, as I was having axtiety attacks myself.
So now basically I m getting the silient treatment whilst she is now sulking.
dont think i have a lot of choice. We broke up twice already, it was hard and 2 months ago I was just starting to get my life back on track! The only hard thing is - if I do tell her things are off, shes only going to want me back.
