Am i right to be a little troubled? 29yr old dude 18yr old girl
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Except you won't be smiling when her man mountain of a father turns up at your doorstep with a shotgun!
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Speaking to a collegue of mine on FB earlier, we both work at schools in IT and hes mentioned that an 18yr old leaver student has given him her number and that they've shared convos before but nothing in 'that' way and he had no clue until last Friday.
Hes said that yes, he will actually go out with her if it comes to that.. I'm 29as well, 30 this yr.. is it me getting on a bit that i find this a little odd?I've had the odd 6th former having a crush but quickly put the stops on it as i just see it as plain wrong..
I don't really see anything wrong really, I'm a similar age to you and don't consider 18 year olds to be off limits. They can be a little crazy however...
o+1
They're both mature adults too (well, they should be anyway
As a 27yo gone to Uni in full time education, I can assure you 18yo Girls are not mature. If all you want is a good time then fair enough, but there's nothing long term there. They're far too dramatic.
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Most of the people I know who are with girls a lot younger than them is because they can't get girls their own age. Seems younger girls in the 18 year old range look up to some guy in their late 20's early 30's because they got a car, place etc. This normally means the older guy can get something above his league to smash for a little while but will never lead to a proper relationship.
Gotta agree. There's nothing wrong with having a bit of fun if you're both consenting adults, but people that young think and act like idiots; you'd have to be immature or desperate to start a relationship with one of them.
I'd have to completely disagree there - IME single women in their late 20s/early 30s are usually very keen to have a relationship, especially as a lot of their friends start getting married etc...
FWIW when I was 18 it was quite normal to own a car too - are these younger girls you're referring to a bit 'council estate' or something?
I agree partially but at the end of the day we're just stereotyping 18y/o girls which isn't going to get us anywhere.
Ranges from council estate bike to in uni and doesn't party often and all the ones in between XD
Yea, but they can only mumble with a mouth full.
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Agreed, stereotyping gets is no where, everyones different after all.
There are plenty in-between, I've met some 19year old girls that do my head in, while I've met some others that are far more interesting to talk to especially if you have a few things in common. 
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Agreed, stereotyping gets is no where, everyones different after all.
Exactly, I have vast experience with all sorts of women and maturity is completely arbitrary.
Also these girls will be having sex with someone at 15 so why not you, the limit being 15 as well is just a figure plucked out of thin air for the government, if they turn 15 in two weeks that makes it a crime but waiting that two weeks they suddenly can make that decision for themselves?
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I say fair play,Like mentioned age is just a number.
I'm 23 and like older women like 30-40...so what!
I'm 23 and like older women like 30-40...so what!
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Age is but a number, who gives a **** if both are consenting adults? Let them enjoy each other! LOL
It's always been a crime to have sex with someone that is 15.
Why stop there... I mean, 14 and 50 weeks seems to be ok for you by what you say.
I go back to my previous quote with this chap (davestar deluxe) as it appears to count for him
IMO, the people that say that (16 I mean) are just trying to keep it legal in a public forum.... If they could get away with it, that age would probably be different
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lol nice try, you can't fool me that easy!
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Been there, done that - in my defense I didn't know she was 19 (and i was 30) until after i took her out as just thought she was a nice girl.
But i've done the other way to - 18 and she was 35ish?
This is making me sound really bad but i haven't been out with many girls. I have to use 2 hands just....
But i've done the other way to - 18 and she was 35ish?
This is making me sound really bad but i haven't been out with many girls. I have to use 2 hands just....
huh?
You stated that if they turn 15 in 2 weeks it is a crime ergo, that person is currently 14. You then state that if you waited those 2 weeks (making the person 15) it is ok?
The age of consent is 16, not 15. If someone is 15 years and 50 weeks old, it is illegal.