A staff member at the job center.
It was along these lines:
Her:"How are you going to travel to work"
Me: Bicycle
Her: oh....... really...., so if you lived in Manchester city center and had to travel to Tameside, you would get up looooaddddsss of hours before work to get there in time
Me: What? It's 6 miles, it'd take about 20-30 minutes.
Her: er...... no it would not, it takes me that long in the car.
Me: I could like do 50 miles in 2 hours.
Her: *ignores that*
Her: you've not done enough to warrant JSA, you don't show motivation or anything.
Me: *says nothing, thinking, well I'm tired, I'm soaked, and I'm at a job center and it's depressing, and you're trying to send me to flip burgers at McDonalds, wonder why I'm looking a bit miserable?*
The time will come when I will look for ANYTHIGN, but at the moment, I am aiming to find something that may contribute to my future.
Her: What other job category do you want me to find?
Me: SEO
Her: What is SEO!?!?! (In an tone that suggests, "ermmm... what the hell is that, sounds stupid"
Me: Search Engine Optimisation
Her: What does that do?
Me: optimises web pages for search engines
Her: Oh *confused* - says no more.
Suffice to say, it would not be acceptable for me to look for SEO jobs to them, because its not on their list of job categories.
I don't like the way they force you to get a job, I'd rather not be on JSA and be looking for ****e jobs on my own than with them pressuring me.
You go in, they treat you like you're dumb,chav and what to live off £52 a week.
I'm neither, I want a job, but the way they go about trying to get me in a job in there is certainly counter productive and I was in a very bad mood coming from the job center, suffice to say, I don't care about picking my £52 up, more just telling her to Fully star out swearing please (obviously I would not but I felt like it) and go look for jobs on my own steam.
She also said that my voluntary work I put on my CV is not work experience because it's "my hobby", I cycle as a hobby but if I am setting up stationary cycling equipment and dealing with the computers and maintenance of them as well as printing peoples reports off for no wage and up to 25 hours a week I fail to see how that is a hobby?
I thought perhaps I should have pointed out to her that a hobby can be work and work does not have to be depressing and boring? People who ride in the TdF like cycling but they're paid to do it as a job, granted it can be hard, tiring and painful.
Also she said I have to look for jobs up to 90 minutes, but I think, I might as well move home then, because Manchester to Selby is about 90 minutes, I want to live in Manchester, if I got a job 90 minutes away I'd want to live nearer that job, I would not want to have a job as a shelve stacker or at McDonalds and commute 90 minutes to it??
Am I being unreasonable to be angry at the advisor? I felt like expressing anger. They really talk down to you.
It was along these lines:
Her:"How are you going to travel to work"
Me: Bicycle
Her: oh....... really...., so if you lived in Manchester city center and had to travel to Tameside, you would get up looooaddddsss of hours before work to get there in time
Me: What? It's 6 miles, it'd take about 20-30 minutes.
Her: er...... no it would not, it takes me that long in the car.
Me: I could like do 50 miles in 2 hours.
Her: *ignores that*
Her: you've not done enough to warrant JSA, you don't show motivation or anything.
Me: *says nothing, thinking, well I'm tired, I'm soaked, and I'm at a job center and it's depressing, and you're trying to send me to flip burgers at McDonalds, wonder why I'm looking a bit miserable?*
The time will come when I will look for ANYTHIGN, but at the moment, I am aiming to find something that may contribute to my future.
Her: What other job category do you want me to find?
Me: SEO
Her: What is SEO!?!?! (In an tone that suggests, "ermmm... what the hell is that, sounds stupid"
Me: Search Engine Optimisation
Her: What does that do?
Me: optimises web pages for search engines
Her: Oh *confused* - says no more.
Suffice to say, it would not be acceptable for me to look for SEO jobs to them, because its not on their list of job categories.
I don't like the way they force you to get a job, I'd rather not be on JSA and be looking for ****e jobs on my own than with them pressuring me.
You go in, they treat you like you're dumb,chav and what to live off £52 a week.
I'm neither, I want a job, but the way they go about trying to get me in a job in there is certainly counter productive and I was in a very bad mood coming from the job center, suffice to say, I don't care about picking my £52 up, more just telling her to Fully star out swearing please (obviously I would not but I felt like it) and go look for jobs on my own steam.
She also said that my voluntary work I put on my CV is not work experience because it's "my hobby", I cycle as a hobby but if I am setting up stationary cycling equipment and dealing with the computers and maintenance of them as well as printing peoples reports off for no wage and up to 25 hours a week I fail to see how that is a hobby?
I thought perhaps I should have pointed out to her that a hobby can be work and work does not have to be depressing and boring? People who ride in the TdF like cycling but they're paid to do it as a job, granted it can be hard, tiring and painful.
Also she said I have to look for jobs up to 90 minutes, but I think, I might as well move home then, because Manchester to Selby is about 90 minutes, I want to live in Manchester, if I got a job 90 minutes away I'd want to live nearer that job, I would not want to have a job as a shelve stacker or at McDonalds and commute 90 minutes to it??
Am I being unreasonable to be angry at the advisor? I felt like expressing anger. They really talk down to you.
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