Made a terrible error in the work place, please read entire thread I need advice!

SO if I am understanding you guys correctly and piecing together all the bigs of information what I form is:

If its not against company policy there is nothing wrong with us having a 'relationship' and as long as its not affecting our work it shouldn't matter. To keep it professional from now on when in the workplace, and to speak to my manager when I can and let him know whats going on and confess everything about our 'private room' antics?
 
saintdefender said:
SO if I am understanding you guys correctly and piecing together all the bigs of information what I form is:

If its not against company policy there is nothing wrong with us having a 'relationship' and as long as its not affecting our work it shouldn't matter. To keep it professional from now on when in the workplace, and to speak to my manager when I can and let him know whats going on and confess everything about our 'private room' antics?
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Yes. But don't mention any toilet goings on, that will just end in bother. Just don't be silly and stop that lark and then carry on like sensible adults. Basically nip the whole thing in the bud and it will be fine. I will say it again though, act professionally or they will find some way to drum you out!
 
I don't want to be a snob but the grasp of English displayed in the OP is shocking!

Secondly, who cares! I've ******* an ex in an inappropriate workplace location, just carry on and stop doing stuff in work hours. On your lunch break they can't touch you really.
 
saintdefender said:
SO if I am understanding you guys correctly and piecing together all the bigs of information what I form is:

If its not against company policy there is nothing wrong with us having a 'relationship' and as long as its not affecting our work it shouldn't matter. To keep it professional from now on when in the workplace, and to speak to my manager when I can and let him know whats going on and confess everything about our 'private room' antics?
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I think you're making more of a deal of this than it is.

I went out with one of my colleagues for years. Everyone figured it out way before I thought they had. And nobody cared.

Unless your workplace has a specific policy about not dating coworkers [which yours doesn't], I'd relax. This happens more than you think, and it's fine.
 
saintdefender said:
But what about this office communicator issue, with all the 'flirt talk' and 'evidence' ?
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What about it? You mean you were flirting when you should have been working? Oh come on, it's not like people don't have discussions during the working day anyway, go out for cigarette breaks etc.

As long as your work isn't affected, I'd calm down.
 
saintdefender said:
SO if I am understanding you guys correctly and piecing together all the bigs of information what I form is:

If its not against company policy there is nothing wrong with us having a 'relationship' and as long as its not affecting our work it shouldn't matter. To keep it professional from now on when in the workplace, and to speak to my manager when I can and let him know whats going on and confess everything about our 'private room' antics?
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I wouldn't even tell your boss unless office relationships are covered in your company policy. It's none of her business who you see... provided it's not affecting your work and you're acting like a professional rather than a child (i.e, cut out the toilet time, messaging and hickeys..).
 
saintdefender said:
Shes 30. As far as evidence goes, there is evidence in the chat logs (If there IS chat logs), if they see these, we are buggered !
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So you must have said incriminating stuff in these chat logs that proves unprofessional behaviour at work?

Also are you a girl?
I don't understand the 'Going to the toilets together for a cuddle' bit.
Are you in a toilet or in a corridor?
Have you mentioned going the toilets together in your chat logs?
 
Dimple said:
So you must have said incriminating stuff in these chat logs that proves unprofessional behaviour at work?

Also are you a girl?
I don't understand the 'Going to the toilets together for a cuddle' bit.
Are you in a toilet or in a corridor?
Have you mentioned going the toilets together in your chat logs?
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I'm a guy, I have mentioned the toilet for a cuddle in a previous post, take a read. And yes, we have mentioned the toilet in the chat logs.

Also, its only a guess they keep chat logs, I don't know for certain!
 
dmpoole is right like , going to the toilet for a cuddle is really really gay.

you both need to grow up and act a bit more professionally in the work place if you want to keep your jobs

yes many many people have or form relationships in the workplace but they dont act like children about it
 
i can understand your issues, this is very serious, and indeed you could lose all respect from everyone you know. :(

even the people on this forum, are likely to hate you forever, for this.

using Microsoft office communicator is in my book unforgivable.

as for your suga mom, smash her pasty in the disabled toilet :p
 
You're an agency worker, they don't need to hunt for an excuse to fire you. If it was a big problem the rumours would probably be enough to get you the boot.

That said, exercise some self control and start acting like adults anyway.
 
"andy" said:
dmpoole is right like , going to the toilet for a cuddle is really really gay.

you both need to grow up and act a bit more professionally in the work place if you want to keep your jobs

yes many many people have or form relationships in the workplace but they dont act like children about it
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We didn't find it bad at first, I mean its a bit of privacy, its no different doing it in the car (which we have done) or doing it in a car park (also done) we aren't acting children, we just didn't want people to know about us and were trying to be private.

I get that I may have ****ed a lot of you off by telling you that we get up to stuff in the cubicles at work, but at the end of the day whats done is done, I can't turn back time now.
 
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