Would you look at her FB, Twitter, email etc. if a chance presented itself?

I'd not look.

A bit of me would want to, but if the bit of you that wants to is the biggest part, then you have trust issues.
 
Davepen said:
I'd not look.

A bit of me would want to, but if the bit of you that wants to is the biggest part, then you have trust issues.
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Not so sure about this. In a normal 'day-to-day' scenario, yes, I would agree. However if your relationship has gone awry, things seem different and you have reasons to suspect, I think it is totally justifiable.
 
Got no reason to look, i trust my wife and to be honest she tells me everything thats going on in her life and what she's posting on fb ect.

Now if she came downstairs, looked at me, looked at the laptop then walked over and closed it first before sitting down and saying hi....then i'd worry:D
 
I'd leave it. I don't like people reading my messages even if there's nothing to hide. Why would I invade someone elses?
 
I'd have to lecture her about wasting electricity whilst she's in the shower. It's not free you know! Typical airheaded female leaving things running for no reason..

(I might look anyway, it depends if I had any suspicions or if I felt like a frape)
 
Fraped then - it's the least anyone deserves for leaving a computer unlocked.
NFI about the actual content of the "enticing" lure of unread FB, Twitter & email messages TBH. I rate trust very highly, if I felt the need the look, then there's no trust in my book and something wrong with the relationship......
 
My ex girlfriend used to check my facebook without realising it was a fake account, I didnt have anything to hide but Facebook is personal to me, funny story she's the one who ended up cheating on me so I accessed her Facebook account changed all the passwords and "ended it" horribly with the bloke she was seeing behind my back. Needless to say he does t ever want to speak to her ever again regardless of whether or not she was to blame. Job done I guess! I still have her iPod though I might drill a hole through it and use it as an ornament from my rear view mirror in my car. Considering she lives two doors Down from my best mate ;D
 
That's two pretty strong posts you've made so far KoukiVitz! Whilst you sound bitter as hell, I look forward to reading more of your tales - at least they are spelt correctly (ish). Welcome.
 
KoukiVitz said:
My ex girlfriend used to check my facebook without realising it was a fake account, I didnt have anything to hide but Facebook is personal to me, funny story she's the one who ended up cheating on me so I accessed her Facebook account changed all the passwords and "ended it" horribly with the bloke she was seeing behind my back. Needless to say he does t ever want to speak to her ever again regardless of whether or not she was to blame. Job done I guess! I still have her iPod though I might drill a hole through it and use it as an ornament from my rear view mirror in my car. Considering she lives two doors Down from my best mate ;D
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Sounds like the two of you had a healthy balanced relationship before it ended.


I recommend you try THINKING before entering into relationships which are obviously doomed from the beginning.
 
Yeah sorry I read these threads and just reply, and my bad for the spelling I'm on my iPhone and it thinks it is he funnyest thing in the planet to mis-type my words.

Also it was good for 6 months till her best friend started poisoning her with bullplop she just gave into it. She was a weak person I just crushed her some more :p

I wouldn't say I'm bitter, I'd say I've grown up a lot faster than people my age haha :')
 
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