There’s no such thing as a self made man in reality.
This.
People ignore the millions of advantages they had & the aid they received to get them to where they are.
1. Fortunate enough to be the sperm that made it.
2. Fortunate enough to have made it to birth.
3. Fortunate enough to have not been born in Somalia with aids & actually born in England.
4. Fortunate enough to have been born free of hereditary mental or physical illness.
5. Fortunate enough to have had state support, medical support through childhood, measures put in to ensure they will not go hungry, parents who didn't sexually/physically abuse them, to not have crack addict parents.
6. Fortunate enough to go-to a school which aided them in obtaining a good education, or parents which supported them.
7. Fortunate to have had a social circle which encouraged (or at least didn't discourage) success & self control/motivation.
Some people succeed DESPITE disadvantages & many only succeed BECAUSE of advantages.
Most of the rest of the population act in accordance to the benefits they did - or did not - receive.
Nobody is self made, only a small minded idiot would claim to be.
"No man is an island" - I believe in a suitable quote in this context.
"No man is an Iland, intire of it selfe; every man is a peece of the Continent, a part of the maine; if a Clod bee washed away by the Sea, Europe is the lesse, as well as if a Promontorie were, as well as if a Mannor of thy friends or of thine owne were; any mans death diminishes me, because I am involved in Mankinde; And therefore never send to know for whom the bell tolls; It tolls for thee."
People like to take credit for things which objectively they had no say in & downplay the advantages they received in at attempt to bolster their self image.