Child forced to drink own urine

Have you phoned the police yet?

You may not realize it but this kind of abuse will leave deep scars on your children and resurface in the future.

You need to seriously man up, phone the police and get your solicitor to write a letter to your ex wife detailing the abuse and explaining that they wont be going back into their custody and that it will be resolved in court.
 
man up? seriously?

Please read my comments on the thread before telling me to "man up" :rolleyes:

I have rang the police as I have not heard from the social services as yet, They are going to the ex's house this evening to interview the uncle over it and to do a safeguarding and risk analysis of the children.

As we don't have a court assigned access agreement, the police are going to try and recommend the children come into my care while the courts solve it, obviously this depends on the risk and interview of the uncle.

I have also asked for complete background checks on all people living in the house, ex's new partner and the uncle and will use all this information for my aim of full custody.

I have a meeting tomorrow with my companies legal team and an independent family lawyer.

being a man: I would rather be educated enough to take correct forms of action regardless of sex, but thanks anyway!
 
I commend your restraint in a situation where any form of your own action would just make everything a whole world worse well done.

Goodluck with everything! could you just clear this up though, is the uncle now the ex' partner? slightly confusing!
 
Richand said:
being a man: I would rather be educated enough to take correct forms of action regardless of sex, but thanks anyway!
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...And finally you did (by calling the police). Though it took a hundred or so people (among them a police officer) telling you that it was the appropriate response.

I guess education can take time.
 
ins0mn1ac said:
I commend your restraint in a situation where any form of your own action would just make everything a whole world worse well done.

Goodluck with everything! could you just clear this up though, is the uncle now the ex' partner? slightly confusing!
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Thank you, I suffered abuse as a child myself and know the long term affects it has and how I view my parent with complete lack of respect now, which isn't what I want for my own children.

the uncle is just the uncle, he was living in a YMCA and now lives with my ex and her new partner in the annex building of the house.

the boyfriend is a grand A idiot and one of those "I know everything" types who has a child in another part of the country and makes zero effort to see this child, great choice of man.
 
Duff-Man said:
...And finally you did (by calling the police). Though it took a hundred or so people (among them a police officer) telling you that it was the appropriate response.

I guess education can take time.
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you obviously haven't dealt with you children being with a women who would easily say "no, you phoned the police on us so your not having the kids".

You have to take things a certain way and by instantly phoning the police (which I was talked out of by family and friends last night btw) I dont think I would have collected the evidence I have done.

text message admitting the abuse so the children's word is less of an issue now and an online video that I have got when digging deeper into the lives of the new boyfriend online and the abuse he gave to a completely unknown stranger online who confronted the abusive video, extract: "I will show you mental abuse when I see you, you *****"

This was in response to a video showing my daughter in tears from the start of the video and them showing her in graphic terms with her begging them to stop of how animals are slaughtered.

this was because my daughter wanted to become a vegetarian as my new partner is a vegetarian and we had spoke about why she was a vegetarian and my daughter agreed with her point of view, ex didn't like this so now gets them to eat all manner of meat, kidney, liver etc just to prove a point and the video was tagged to one of my friends so I was sure to see it.

child abuse as a weapon, low, real low.
 
If you don't have a legal access agreement in place maybe now is the time to sort one. Otherwise you are at her mercy all the time.
 
Richand said:
...an online video that I have got when digging deeper into the lives of the new boyfriend online and the abuse he gave to a completely unknown stranger online who confronted the abusive video, extract: "I will show you mental abuse when I see you, you *****"

This was in response to a video showing my daughter in tears from the start of the video and them showing her in graphic terms with her begging them to stop of how animals are slaughtered.
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Who recorded the video, and where was it recorded? Why was it uploaded?

Surely somebody wouldn't record a video of themselves (or a friend / partner) upsetting a child this much and then put it on-line? None of this makes any sense.
 
Richand said:
you obviously haven't dealt with you children being with a women who would easily say "no, you phoned the police on us so your not having the kids".
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Morba said:
If you don't have a legal access agreement in place maybe now is the time to sort one. Otherwise you are at her mercy all the time.
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Indeed...

If your ex is, as you say, willing to withhold contact with your kids as some kind of "punishment" per perceived slights, then a legal access agreement should be a top priority.
 
Richand said:
you obviously haven't dealt with you children being with a women who would easily say "no, you phoned the police on us so your not having the kids".

You have to take things a certain way and by instantly phoning the police (which I was talked out of by family and friends last night btw) I dont think I would have collected the evidence I have done.

text message admitting the abuse so the children's word is less of an issue now and an online video that I have got when digging deeper into the lives of the new boyfriend online and the abuse he gave to a completely unknown stranger online who confronted the abusive video, extract: "I will show you mental abuse when I see you, you *****"

This was in response to a video showing my daughter in tears from the start of the video and them showing her in graphic terms with her begging them to stop of how animals are slaughtered.

this was because my daughter wanted to become a vegetarian as my new partner is a vegetarian and we had spoke about why she was a vegetarian and my daughter agreed with her point of view, ex didn't like this so now gets them to eat all manner of meat, kidney, liver etc just to prove a point and the video was tagged to one of my friends so I was sure to see it.

child abuse as a weapon, low, real low.
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wait so your partner and her new fella filmed them selves making your daughter watch an animal slaughter video?

and uploaded it where?
 
Frankly if the OP has been trolling about something as serious as child abuse then is he really the sort of person we want in the community?
 
Castiel said:
Frankly if the OP has been trolling about something as serious as child abuse then is he really the sort of person we want in the community?
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It's more common than some people realise: Munchausen by proxy and Munchausen by internet.

But in answer to your question: No. Definitely not.

Let's not jump the gun though - I'll admit that the story is starting to sound a bit fishy, but we should give him the benefit of the doubt for now.
 
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