Ladies and gentlemen, wish me luck!

Punch her in the face. No longer friends. Chloroform, Done! (The Done is done in the style of Gordon Ramsay when he finishes a recipe!) DONE!
 
Housey said:
At your next 'drinks' she will introduce you to her new fella. Go find someone else as she will rip your heart out or drive you crazy if you're all besotted. Play it cool Trig, play it cool :)
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Yea, I am in no position to be dating but what is fairly clear to me is that girls who friend zone people do not do it maliciously, move on and don't take it personally and work on being more attractive, and in doing so that will be far more attractive to her than helicoptering around waiting for her to come around by being a "nice guy".

I hate guys who complain about being the nice guy who got friend zoned.
 
At least you a) had the balls to go up to her in the first place and b) bothered to reply to the thread.

A rare occurrence in GD.
 
sigma said:
At least you a) had the balls to go up to her in the first place and b) bothered to reply to the thread.

A rare occurrence in GD.
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Thanks, the way I see it,

I got to see someone awesome again after almost a year of random messages and a 5 minute meeting hundreds of miles away.

Took my chances and asked for a date next time we meet. Got turned down nicely but told to keep in contact.

As I said, and others. Plenty of them in the sea. I'm sure the next girl I meet will be 'perfection' haha.
 
Moses said:
Why are people going crazy?! Leaving after 7 (meeting at 8, for example), then getting back after midnight, would hardly be surprising!
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No one was going crazy, you appeared to be 24 hours behind everyone else as we were posting on Sunday evening, his date was Saturday evening.

OP, unlucky chap... As said, nothing to lose in the future!
 
This is just my experience of girls my age (19/20/21) but they'll often say this to see how committed you are. My current other half basically did the same thing. It goes as follows:

Meet nice guy.
Friend zone him.
Wait to see if he actually tries.
He tried hard therefore he actually isn't just in it for a one night stand.
End up with him for over 2 years.

Obviously each girl to their own, but it is possible that is almost like a "test".
 
Ahh mind games... **** that. I cannot be annoyed with mind games like this so I would fail the "test" :rolleyes:

Anyone that does games like this should just be ignored. Either be open and honest or sod off. If the relationship starts out with these pathetic games then the future will be full of them.
 
cheechm said:
This is just my experience of girls my age (19/20/21) but they'll often say this to see how committed you are. My current other half basically did the same thing. It goes as follows:

Meet nice guy.
Friend zone him.
Wait to see if he actually tries.
He tried hard therefore he actually isn't just in it for a one night stand.
End up with him for over 2 years.

Obviously each girl to their own, but it is possible that is almost like a "test".
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Don't get the logic, the guy could still ditch her after sleeping with her.
 
hurfdurf said:
Yea, I am in no position to be dating but what is fairly clear to me is that girls who friend zone people do not do it maliciously, move on and don't take it personally and work on being more attractive, and in doing so that will be far more attractive to her than helicoptering around waiting for her to come around by being a "nice guy".

I hate guys who complain about being the nice guy who got friend zoned.
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Some girls friend zone guys to establish a sort of pool to pick from, and play people in the zone off against each other because it makes them feel special.

I once went out with a girl that did this, admitted it to me and then tried to do it to me.

Also my little sister does it all the time and sees nothing wrong with it. I am not suggesting this is true of everyone, but it does seem to happen.
 
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