Mrs just left me..

Once a woman knows she has the last word on the relationship, it's just a countdown till it is actually over. And even worse since they lose respect and aren't attracted to men who are always going to have them back no matter what happens.

Been there, done that, and infinitely happier with my relationships since, and so are the women involved.
 
I guarantee you she'll dump you again. Congratulations, you've just signed up to waste another ~3 months of your life on someone who doesn't actually care about you that much.
 
Murf said:
I guarantee you she'll dump you again. Congratulations, you've just signed up to waste another ~3 months of your life on someone who doesn't actually care about you that much.
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While I mostly agree with you as I have also been there done that, when you actually _love_ someone, you want to try everything possible to stay together. If you are not going to make that extra effort for that one special person then who will you for?

Hope it works out for you OP.
 
I hope things work out for you both :)

e : god damn, I can't leave that without editing in that I really don't think it will work but I admire your attempt and wish you well.
 
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Hmmm so she was trying to hitch up with some guy from uni after the Christmas break and stress of the mocks but it doesn't seem that it went well

I hope it works out well for you OP but females are possibly at their most mental at 20ish
 
A similar thing happened to my bro-in-law. They got back together, got married and lived happily ever after. For about 3 years. Then she started seeing other guys on the side, ran up £30K of credit card debts and moved up North with her now ex-boyfriend who she bled dry in fuelling her addiction of buying parts for her knackered classic Mini. She's now on another Mini/bloke.
 
I would have to add caution also. It might be that she's convinved herself it will work, but the underlying feelings will inevitably reappear.

I would just be cautious, however you do it.
 
Morba said:
Yep, some people can actually sit down and talk and then work for a better future.
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This.

Glad it's moving in the right direction. I had a similar thing with a girl once where she split up with me as she basically 'wanted space' - she got her space and I moved on. 18 months later we ended going back out, a year later getting engaged and in a couple of months we're due to celebrate our 10th wedding anniversary.

Greatest thing we ever decided in our relationship was to be open and honest - sometimes it hurts, but I love the fact we can be honest as it does really save so much argument. I couldn't recommend this in a relationship more. After all, the person you're with should be your best friend!

Good luck and hope it goes well for you both.
 
Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't. I guess given some space apart you have time to think and realise what you want.

Also, some people are very different after a bit of time apart.

BB x
 
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