split with my wife of around 12 years we have an 8year old kid , if any of my friends want to get with her its none of my business. (I'd expect them to tell me if they did start dating and not hear it from someone else)I think that if you value your friendship with someone, especially when it's a ex-partner of many years, that you would have to decency to speak to them first as it could adversely affect them. Would it be different if they had been together 20 years? And been friends for longer?
Also this guy sounds like a tool, so it doesn't surprise me that he has no respect for this friend.
First of I'd like to apologise for grave digging threads but...
Your sister is more than happy enough with the smashings that she's having.
Also, I'd just like to mention that it was solid for six years (we were also engaged and I'm not one to leap into that for the hell of it) before it started going pear-shaped due to me suffering from depression and was unwilling to sort things out.
Just an update for you all saying as it now seems you know most of what's going on in my life so far:
They're now together and to be honest it helped me move on rather rapidly, to David's sister. It's all going great and everything's been hunky dory. So I thought that I'd come on here, get back into the whole overclocking and modding scene again as my computer's potential is not being used (I'll post about that elsewhere). Then I see this thread and at first, I thought "well at least he was a bit concerned" but as I delved deeper I realised I was just getting beasted for the sake of winning you all over. I have never cheated on her and I don't know what these shocking things I have done on nights out are.
so some of this...
isn't far wrong at all.
A tad upsetting to say the least, you know a guy for about 18 years, then a girl who you've known for 8 comes along (he's known her for about 4 or 5) and bam, it all goes to ****.
Just remember, kids. Don't go putting your mates down severely on a public forum that they know you frequent and are very likely to visit.
Again, I know this is an old thread now but just thought I'd let you all know the other side of things and not listen to all the bashing that was brought it to bring you on to the side of "aye go on then".
See you 'round the forum.
Your sister is more than happy enough with the smashings that she's having.![]()
They're now together and to be honest it helped me move on rather rapidly, to David's sister.
Never thought these dream moments when a non-ocuk guy who's the topic of the thread turns up to defend himself actually happen!
Just remember, kids. Don't go putting your mates down severely on a public forum that they know you frequent and are very likely to visit.
test the water by sleeping with his mum and sister first. If that works out then drop it that you are also boning his ex. I am sure it will be ok...........................
First of I'd like to apologise for grave digging threads but...
Your sister is more than happy enough with the smashings that she's having.
Also, I'd just like to mention that it was solid for six years (we were also engaged and I'm not one to leap into that for the hell of it) before it started going pear-shaped due to me suffering from depression and was unwilling to sort things out.
Just an update for you all saying as it now seems you know most of what's going on in my life so far:
They're now together and to be honest it helped me move on rather rapidly, to David's sister. It's all going great and everything's been hunky dory. So I thought that I'd come on here, get back into the whole overclocking and modding scene again as my computer's potential is not being used (I'll post about that elsewhere). Then I see this thread and at first, I thought "well at least he was a bit concerned" but as I delved deeper I realised I was just getting beasted for the sake of winning you all over. I have never cheated on her and I don't know what these shocking things I have done on nights out are.
so some of this...
isn't far wrong at all.
A tad upsetting to say the least, you know a guy for about 18 years, then a girl who you've known for 8 comes along (he's known her for about 4 or 5) and bam, it all goes to ****.
Just remember, kids. Don't go putting your mates down severely on a public forum that they know you frequent and are very likely to visit.
Again, I know this is an old thread now but just thought I'd let you all know the other side of things and not listen to all the bashing that was brought it to bring you on to the side of "aye go on then".
See you 'round the forum.