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I think that if you value your friendship with someone, especially when it's a ex-partner of many years, that you would have to decency to speak to them first as it could adversely affect them. Would it be different if they had been together 20 years? And been friends for longer?

Also this guy sounds like a tool, so it doesn't surprise me that he has no respect for this friend.
split with my wife of around 12 years we have an 8year old kid , if any of my friends want to get with her its none of my business. (I'd expect them to tell me if they did start dating and not hear it from someone else)

I know all my friends are good people though and I trust them not to mess her around and to be good to my kid
 
Was going to reply to the OP then saw the date, skipped to the end and saw all the commotion. Queue a few seconds of digging.

To save everyone else that digging: Post #265
 
First of I'd like to apologise for grave digging threads but...



Your sister is more than happy enough with the smashings that she's having. :D

Also, I'd just like to mention that it was solid for six years (we were also engaged and I'm not one to leap into that for the hell of it) before it started going pear-shaped due to me suffering from depression and was unwilling to sort things out.
Just an update for you all saying as it now seems you know most of what's going on in my life so far:

They're now together and to be honest it helped me move on rather rapidly, to David's sister. It's all going great and everything's been hunky dory. So I thought that I'd come on here, get back into the whole overclocking and modding scene again as my computer's potential is not being used (I'll post about that elsewhere). Then I see this thread and at first, I thought "well at least he was a bit concerned" but as I delved deeper I realised I was just getting beasted for the sake of winning you all over. I have never cheated on her and I don't know what these shocking things I have done on nights out are.

so some of this...




isn't far wrong at all.

A tad upsetting to say the least, you know a guy for about 18 years, then a girl who you've known for 8 comes along (he's known her for about 4 or 5) and bam, it all goes to ****.

Just remember, kids. Don't go putting your mates down severely on a public forum that they know you frequent and are very likely to visit.

Again, I know this is an old thread now but just thought I'd let you all know the other side of things and not listen to all the bashing that was brought it to bring you on to the side of "aye go on then".

See you 'round the forum.

Welcome to the forum, chap! Nothing like smashing a sister's pasty; oh wait! :D

I had your back before ;) It must be quite shocking to see what this friend spoke of you. Funnily enough I don't think he mentioned that you were engaged at the time?
 
Can we now arrange for the sister to post?

Never thought these dream moments when a non-ocuk guy who's the topic of the thread turns up to defend himself actually happen!

It happened once in the Motors forum. I think it was a typical MikeIOW thread where he was getting bashed over something or other as usual. It was about a specific make of car or something. Anyway, he mentions about some posts on a specialist car make forum and the usual MikeIOW bashers wade in to ridicule MikeIOW and the other bloke he mentioned. Then the other bloke creates an account and in just a few posts demonstrates he clearly was very clued up in regards to this particular make of car and knew exactly what he was talking about. It was really quite funny watching the regular posters who would normally have immediately given him the full Motors treatment, given this was a MikeIOW thread, and instead back off and react all unsure what to do. Quite an interesting little social dynamic, made me laugh anyway.
 
Just remember, kids. Don't go putting your mates down severely on a public forum that they know you frequent and are very likely to visit.

Amen to that, and welcome to the forum chap! Don't worry about your "mate" David, he's obviously a Ho's before Bro's kind of guy, and not worth the time stressing over too much. Still, I hope it's not too awkward for you both when you see each-other now that you're dating his sister. Wonder what she makes of all this? :)
 
So pleased I read past the first few posts and decided to comment after reading a few more (discovering #265).

This thread delivery!
 
test the water by sleeping with his mum and sister first. If that works out then drop it that you are also boning his ex. I am sure it will be ok...........................
 
test the water by sleeping with his mum and sister first. If that works out then drop it that you are also boning his ex. I am sure it will be ok...........................

Just read the last few pages......... THREAD DELIVERS, this is going to be epic like the on with the bloke who had his phone nicked and tracked it and took pictures of the thief...........

hahahaha just read #265, looks like your mate beat you to it and is now smashing your sister in............. paybacks a bitch, but thats what you get when you start giving someone internet beatings to justify something you know is not right.
 
I think anyone that says this isn't out of order clearly has never been in this situation.

You're going to lose a mate out of it and potentially friends of friends. Probably should have kept it on the down low for a few months to make sure it felt right before telling your mate.

You've already lost him, chances are you'll lose her too eventually. Then what?
 
First of I'd like to apologise for grave digging threads but...



Your sister is more than happy enough with the smashings that she's having. :D

Also, I'd just like to mention that it was solid for six years (we were also engaged and I'm not one to leap into that for the hell of it) before it started going pear-shaped due to me suffering from depression and was unwilling to sort things out.
Just an update for you all saying as it now seems you know most of what's going on in my life so far:

They're now together and to be honest it helped me move on rather rapidly, to David's sister. It's all going great and everything's been hunky dory. So I thought that I'd come on here, get back into the whole overclocking and modding scene again as my computer's potential is not being used (I'll post about that elsewhere). Then I see this thread and at first, I thought "well at least he was a bit concerned" but as I delved deeper I realised I was just getting beasted for the sake of winning you all over. I have never cheated on her and I don't know what these shocking things I have done on nights out are.

so some of this...




isn't far wrong at all.

A tad upsetting to say the least, you know a guy for about 18 years, then a girl who you've known for 8 comes along (he's known her for about 4 or 5) and bam, it all goes to ****.

Just remember, kids. Don't go putting your mates down severely on a public forum that they know you frequent and are very likely to visit.

Again, I know this is an old thread now but just thought I'd let you all know the other side of things and not listen to all the bashing that was brought it to bring you on to the side of "aye go on then".

See you 'round the forum.

owned!!!

ahhahaa

To be fair op is just dirt to me really, who takes their mates Ex?

one desperate douche who can't go pick up girls himself. OP U MAD U BEEN OWNED?

YEA BRAH, OWNED!
 
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