Feeling so low right now, need advice

Let this girl go. You're 17, still not an adult, and you and will have many, many more girlfriends in your life. Finish your education, get a degree, find your way, and then start thinking about who you want to spend the rest of your life with.
 
Is she serious about wanting to move away? Then it seems the relationship doesnt have a future anyway, surely? Unless you are willing to move with her, which you dont seem to be..and which is probably a bad idea at your age and situation anyway.

Personally I wouldnt be in a relationship with a girl who called me such things. I dont know how you act toward her though so perhaps its more acceptable.

Mate, youre 17. I dont want to sound patronising but this isnt really a big deal. Its your first relationship, its not something worth getting depressed about, let alone talking of crawling into a hole and dying.
 
Got to say, she sounds like a bit of an ass wipe. Throwing a hissy fit because you won't drop your life and move to Scotland or Cornwall. Daft mare.

Also...why Scotland or Cornwall??? Opposite ends of the UK!
 
She asked you to move away with her and you said, no. Of course she's going to call you that you mongoloid.

Next time even if you've decided on the spot say you'll think about it. Then come back to her with list of considerate reasons why you can't/don't want to.
 
She asked you to move away with her and you said, no. Of course she's going to call you that you mongoloid.

Next time even if you've decided on the spot say you'll think about it. Then come back to her with list of considerate reasons why you can't/don't want to.

It was an absolutely ridiculous question to ask a 17 year old kid who is in college. Considerate reasons? LOL
 
Wow, she called you a ****? What a charming young lady. Totally worth moving to the other end of the country for. And is she serious about moving to Scotland or Cornwall? Or is this the impulsive, irrational, mind game of a teenage girl. As it's convenient that she's chosen the 2 furthest places away from Southend.
 
Well we dont really know what he said :o Id imagine there was more to the conversation than that.

I just said to leave me alone for a while and naturally they see that as a bad thing... What makes it really stupid is that she's now writing about me on tumblr and putting skype statuses that make her out to be really happy
 
I just said to leave me alone for a while and naturally they see that as a bad thing... What makes it really stupid is that she's now writing about me on tumblr and putting skype statuses that make her out to be really happy

Tumblr URL please

6-7. Months is normally too short of a time to drop everything and move away for a girl
17 is almost certainly too young to do so.

She be crazy
 
I just said to leave me alone for a while and naturally they see that as a bad thing... What makes it really stupid is that she's now writing about me on tumblr and putting skype statuses that make her out to be really happy

The question to ask yourself now is whether shes hot enough to justify putting up with the crazy.
 
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