Feeling so low right now, need advice

Your life is ahead of you so don't lose it now. Leave her, and finish your education and start living.
 
Come on OP, come back and tell us more! Have you gained perspective yet? Have you drawn on the wealth of life experience from us older chaps? Or have you descended into a bitter well of self-pity and are wondering how you'll afford to move to Scotland/Cornwall with The One?
 
robgmun said:
I wish more people told me this when I was with my first gf, I wasted years of my life on her when I should have known there was far better non-mental girls out there.
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Me also. Stuck with mine because I didn't know any better and got my ass kicked as a result. Should have moved on much sooner.
 
robgmun said:
I wish more people told me this when I was with my first gf, I wasted years of my life on her when I should have known there was far better non-mental girls out there.
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Woah...... hold on a sec I thought non insane women where a myth like women who actually swallow or Father Christmas? :eek:
 
Raymond Lin said:
Stay in college, go to university. Do not move to Cornwall!
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Nothing wrong with Cornwall!!

However, dont move here.

I must admit I did smile a little when reading this post as a simillar thing happend to me when I was your age..

I thought she was the be all and end all and how could I go on without her... However, two weeks later I was with a new bit of pasty smashing it with a sledgehammer. This continued for several years with many many different varieties of pastys. Then I met my lovely wife (and moved back to Cornwall)

She sounds rude man, drop her like she is scalding and get out and enjoy life...

To be 17 again man..

Seriously in two weeks, you wont remember her name..
 
Tell her you love her, get her pregnant and the hard part of life is sorted, dating is too difficult and really you just want to be with the first woman that'll come near you. Moving to scotland isn't so bad, chance to start a whole new life, perfectly reasonable, your old one must be bring now you are so old anyway.
 
I'm not exactly good with relationship advice, however, I don't think any advice is really needed?

You would be stupid to do something like that at 17. And as said many times, sorry, but she sounds like a right female dog.
 
Cosimo said:
Your life is ahead of you so don't lose it now. Leave her, and finish your education and start living.
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This. Plenty more fit girls your age living in your town, always have been. Shouldn't have a problem meeting another one, one who won't want you to move 300 miles with her, only to dump you unceremoniously.
 
Go with her and start up a shop specialising in cod and potatos. Proceed to to create a business empire selling thus produce to fish and chip shops all over the country. Adopt 7 circus orphans and train them to be gymnastic assassins. Become Lord Sugar's apprentice.

Just leave her. You're 17. Go out, get smashed, be sick, enjoy yourself.
 
As a fellow 17 year old, I can say that it sounds like you should not be with this girl. She doesn't seem worth it at all, and to be honest, getting into relationships at our age isnt the smartest thing to do anyway, they almost always amount to nothing in the long term.

Hard to hear, even harder to accept, but its what was said to me, and after my last girlfriend left me for a girl (OUCH) I saw how much of a (you next Tuesday) she was, just as everyone else had been telling me all along. That relationship was 8 months. After the break I got over it in about a week.

First relationship was far better, or so I thought until she left me for one of my close mates (OUCH again) - that one took a lot longer to get over.

I don't want to be in another relationship for the foreseeable future now. It seems to all be false hope and stupidity when so young. These years are best spent with your mates, having fun, making memories for you to look back on fondly. :)
 
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