Why do friends become "A" Holes when you change your body ?

I thought you were going to say you had a sex change or something! :)

Sounds like your fat mates are jealous. Get new buff mates...

(Inbetweeners voice) "Gym friend"
 
fez said:
Not really. I haven't heard too many people complain about the fact that they have suddenly become really hench after getting aids. I don't think that anyone would call someone aids boy for beefing up and losing weight. Its a retarded insult. Nothing remotely funny or witty about it.
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So losing weight and body fat and losing weight and body fat aren't the same thing? Lol.
 
Dis86 said:
Also notice op has healthy ruddy cheeks in before photo. Face hidden in after photos. Is it maybe...just maybe possible that he's lost a lot of weight from his face making him look gaunt? This to people who have known him many years could make him look unwell. Can you all honestly tell me you've never seen someone who's lost a lot of weight and thought to yourself that they look ill?
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Plenty, but I would never in a million years use any of the insults they have levelled at him. Maybe thats because I'm not a complete ****. If he is taking them as nasty insults and he got on with them fine beforehand, chances are good that they are meant to be mean.
 
Redman said:
Perhaps true, but it's always good to have a few mates who like the odd abusive line. It trains you up in a way that a gym doesn't.

So rather than run off in tears to post on a computer forum (yes I'm exaggerating, and no I don't think this is what OP has done) when told that his mate would hang himself if he looked like him, he could have had a come-back. Dunno what mind, something like, 'na, even a noose wouldn't want to get that close to you, you ugly ****'.
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Sure, the odd joke at a friends expense is fine and is usually good for a laugh, but it just seems like a constant stream of abuse that the OP is receiving which is just that, abuse. 'Banter' is also usually a two way thing where friends exchange 'banter' with each other. The OPs situation seems like a one way street, and if someone doesn't want to join in with the 'banter' you shouldn't try to force them into it.
 
Dis86 said:
So losing weight and body fat and losing weight and body fat aren't the same thing? Lol.
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What are you even arguing. That calling someone who has lost weight and bulked up "aids boy" is a fine insult because aids makes you lose weight. You're just arguing for the sake of it now.
 
Mostly this:
Fenris said:
I think it is far more likely that your friends have always been douchebags and it's only now that you are noticing it as their douchebagery is being directed at you.
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Some people are just bitter, insecure and jealous by nature.


icecold

Stats: Thick, solid, tight, joocy
 
Have you actually expressed your concerns about what they are saying, maybe they don't realise? I can be quite harsh with banter myself - but my mates will soon say if it was over the line (though after many years, I know where that line is anyway).

If they do know, and are continuing; then yea - get new friends.
 
fez said:
What are you even arguing. That calling someone who has lost weight and bulked up "aids boy" is a fine insult because aids makes you lose weight. You're just arguing for the sake of it now.
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I'm saying it's hardly insult of the year is it? And I don't think it was "aids boy", thought it was "you look like you've got aids".

And, since you seem to have limited short term memory and comprehension, I was arguing that OP has lost a lot of weight and body fat (obvious from the pics), AIDS sufferers too lose a lot of weight and body fat. Thus the comments are linked, whereas you stated they weren't related.
 
Dis86 said:
I'm saying it's hardly insult of the year is it? And I don't think it was "aids boy", thought it was "you look like you've got aids".

And, since you seem to have limited short term memory and comprehension, I was arguing that OP has lost a lot of weight and body fat (obvious from the pics), AIDS sufferers too lose a lot of weight and body fat. Thus the comments are linked, whereas you stated they weren't related.
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No they are not. Show the before and after pics and literally 1 person in 1000 would make an aids comment. The fact that you think there is any reason at all to link weight loss and aids tells me all I need to know.

I seriously assumed you might have actually checked what he said in the OP after deciding that I have issues with comprehension but...

you ok there aids victim
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Great work dude
 
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fez said:
No they are not. Show the before and after pics and literally 1 person in 1000 would make an aids comment. The fact that you think there is any reason at all to link weight loss and aids tells me all I need to know.
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fml...

You are seeing, in the latter shots, the OP 'flexing' for want of a better term and wearing no clothes. Now picture OP in his original clothes which will now hang loose on him.

Tells me you'll never make a doctor too. Last time I went to the docs with major weight loss and loss of body fat I was tested for HIV. Turns out I had an unrelated problem with my digestive system but hey...whadya know, shows they're linked!
 
Dis86 said:
fml...

You are seeing, in the latter shots, the OP 'flexing' for want of a better term and wearing no clothes. Now picture OP in his original clothes which will now hang loose on him.

Tells me you'll never make a doctor too. Last time I went to the docs with major weight loss and loss of body fat I was tested for HIV. Turns out I had an unrelated problem with my digestive system but hey...whadya know, shows they're linked!
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Haha, is that what you are going for.

Patient: Doctor, I have been dieting loads and working out and have lost weight and put on lots of muscle.

Doctor: Well son, we had better get you checked for HIV and AIDs.

Do yourself a favour and stop now. Nothing about the OP would make anyone think about AIDS. The fact that you think so is laughable.
 
If one of my mates started wearing a low cut vest I would have something to say too :D

Seriously though they sound like they just enjoy putting people down and are probably now jealous that you have managed to accomplish something.

Good progress btw, get posting in the sports arena.
 
fez said:
Haha, is that what you are going for.

Patient: Doctor, I have been dieting loads and working out and have lost weight and put on lots of muscle.

Doctor: Well son, we had better get you checked for HIV and AIDs.

Do yourself a favour and stop now. Nothing about the OP would make anyone think about AIDS. The fact that you think so is laughable.
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But bro, you'll never make a doctor.
 
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