How do I meet women?

I meant by not being too in your face, if you come across desperate then it isn't going to end very well. Poor choice of words. I didn't mean take your belt of and give her a good hiding LOL
 
wingman said:
It's worth asking though. They might actually love that.
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haha, oh man you just made me remember something.

Years ago a good friend of mine went out with this lass. Must have been around 20-21 at the time. She told him one of her fantasies was being raped by a burgular.....think it was a kinda excitement rush thing.

anyway, one night he told her he was working late (he wasn't). He wore black clothes and a pair of tights over his head. He jumped through the bedroom window and pinned her down.

Surprisingly she was scared to death.....the relationship didn't last :eek:
 
Rusty_Noob said:
He's called himself, and I quote, a 19 stone fat mess. Sure he may not be as fat as he's making out due to the low self esteem, and he might have a decent body composition, but when I was 19 stone, at 6ft 4, I would still have considered myself fat.
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Becauseit is fat... I was about that weight once not that long ago. I was and felt like a fat slob. Roughly 3.5 stone lighter and I still feel the same. I'm just glad I'm not that big any more.

Size/body issues can have an effect on you OP, but they definitely should not have an effect on you meeting someone. I lost all that weight but didn't find anyone, tried online, I have a normal social life etc and it didn't make a difference. What I'm saying is that you do these things for YOU. You must find peace with yourself first. If you are not happy and not at peace with yourself ask yourself how anyone else can be?

Work on yourself first, then worry about the rest. Find your own happiness and things will look up :)
 
glen8 said:
haha, oh man you just made me remember something.

Years ago a good friend of mine went out with this lass. Must have been around 20-21 at the time. She told him one of her fantasies was being raped by a burgular.....think it was a kinda excitement rush thing.

anyway, one night he told her he was working late (he wasn't). He wore black clothes and a pair of tights over his head. He jumped through the bedroom window and pinned her down.

Surprisingly she was scared to death.....the relationship didn't last :eek:
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Glen you are on a roll today!

I have heard of weird things like this before though. There's a sexual deviant in all of us.
 
Firestar_3x said:
I like being healthy, but imho it's just our of basic respect for yourself and your partner, I wouldn't want my partner turning into a slob just because 'I’ve put a ring on it', so I’m sure she would feel the same about me.
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Indeed. Besides, it's also a personal pride thing as well.
 
[QUOTE='[TFU]In relation to losing weight, dont listen to some people about how many calories/fats/sugars you should be taking.... Just cut out Chocolate and cakes, eat 3 meals a day try and keep them health. Drink at least 2 ltrs of water a day. If you feel the need to binge keep it to a once a week treat night. Instead of having say cripsy beef, have chicken chow main and satay sauce (example).[/QUOTE]
Doesn't work really, I do this and I weight 150kg (6'6" tall but it's still heavy)

You can eat healthy but with a sedentary lifestyle you'll still be fat unless you have a good metabolism naturally.
 
top tip

Fat people have smaller looking willys (I have been told this from a girl I work with)
She also says, fat men are a big turn off and healthy looking men will always pull a woman.
 
sometimes you need an extra bit of motivation when getting fit

Obviously it's all well and good saying 'becoming healthier' is all the motivation you need, but this rarely cuts it in the real world. It's too easy to stay at home watching a film and ordering a dominos than going out in the cold rain to drive to the gym for an hour.

Getting a hot women would be better motivation and you are less likely to stop going
 
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