Just say no...It's not worth the trouble and strife

Made similar mistake in the past just agreeing most of the time to the partner's demands...(she was a fruit loop and i didnt want to antagonise the bear)

Now my attitude is wake the bear, fight the bear and win....only then will the bear respect you....
 
robgmun said:
I see time and again on this forum that men are scared to buy themselves stuff because what the other half thinks. But women just have to get used to the fact that we have a say in our own lives too
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Can't say I've ever not bought stuff for me because of what my wife thinks.

Although we have our own money. Have done from the start.
 
elmarko said:
I thought the trick was to maintain the illusion that you want more than you do, so you have something to sacrifice (which isn't really a sacrifice because you never wanted it) during domestic altercations to keep the peace.

(I don't actually do this, but it sounds like an awesome idea - I applaud myself for thinking of it).
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LOL I applaud you too but it's already been thunk of before actually surprised it's taken you this long to think of it :D
 
robgmun said:
I see time and again on this forum that men are scared to buy themselves stuff because what the other half thinks. But women just have to get used to the fact that we have a say in our own lives too
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Depends if the person has a background of irresponsible spending, which impacts other parts of life.

Money is shared between me and my wife, so large expenses need to be talked over first, which hasn't prevented anything being bought but just make my wife feel at least included in our finical decisions.
 
For me it comes down to this, femism aside unless you meet a real hard nose woman.

The man is the one who decides things, the man makes decisions, the man calls the shots, the man is the leader. We are naturally meant to be like this think of all old films how they used to portray men that is a man.

Woman are naturally more submissive they just are, they are meant to follow this is why they are so easily manipulated by media fashion shopping etc it's just way it is and i'm sure it'll offend some feminazis.

If you get involved in a marriage because she wants too and you really don't it's all going to end badly for you, as soon as she starts calling the shots she will also lose respect for you. You are no longer the man in the house and woman want a strong masculine energy around not some boy who can't make decisions and think for himself as is the case with most guys now days.
 
Davey_Pitch said:
I normally check with the wife before I buy something, but that's primarily because she looks after the combined finances, and I tend to forget if we have a bill or something about to come out. Rather than asking for permission, it's more for me to make sure I'm not forgetting something that's about to be paid out!
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Yes we check as bills come out throughout the month, but we would never ask each others permission.
 
Freakbro said:
The age old question within a marriage, is it better to be happy or right? It seems they are not mutually exclusive...



:D



So they recruited a married couple for the experiment and got the husband to modify his behaviour by just agreeing to all his wifes demands, without the wife knowing this was going to happen.



Not exactly the most serious of experiments with a data set of 1, but it goes to show in this ever metrosexualised world, don't forget who wears the trousers! ;)

http://www.today.com/health/marriag...istmas-could-virgin-births-be-real-2D11762820
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i think if those couples were to have kids, they would have all girls. :D
 
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Joshct said:
I WANT TO USE THE BACKDOOR!
NO
...... BJ?


That kind of thing?
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LOL.

or how about...

I want to do DP.
NO?
Back door then...ok?

:D

It's amazing how many times I've seen grown men on this forum needing to "get permission" from their partners on whether or not they can spend their own money. I'm not sure if they are wimps or if the money actually belongs to their partners.

My attitude is that if either partner wishes to spend money on something frivolous, their should be a discussion, but at no stage, should 1 partner need to get permission.

I myself, wouldn't dream of getting permission to spend my own money.

The problem with some women (its always women), is when their husbands allow them to get away with everything, they behave like spoilt brats with everyone else, expecting to get their own way with other people.

Unfortunately there is no magic formula to a long lasting marriage. Most people who are married long term state that both people have to work at it. There is no Mr & Mrs Right...contrary to what the movies will have you believe. Unfortunately, most women don't understand this.
 
CREATIVE!11 said:
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The man is the one who decides things, the man makes decisions, the man calls the shots, the man is the leader. We are naturally meant to be like this think of all old films how they used to portray men that is a man.

Woman are naturally more submissive they just are, they are meant to follow this is why they are so easily manipulated by media fashion shopping etc it's just way it is and i'm sure it'll offend some feminazis.
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Your silly sexism offends me. You're the same as what you're objecting to so badly. In your silly terms, you're a mascunazi. Sexism begets sexism. You're creating each other, endlessly.

Here's something you won't be able to fit into your ideas - I'm an antifeminist. I advocate sexual equality, therefore I oppose feminism.

You're making up irrational stereotypes and trying to claim false authority for it by saying it's natural. That just means that you're talking rubbish and you know you can't make any rational argument to support it. You're no better (and no different) to people who claim, for example, that "it's natural" for "whites" to rule "blacks".
 
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