Destroyed by a girlfriend.. Damn

Im quite an admittedly confident behind a screen person. I could type and text a person into bed if i tried but if it comes to me talking with my mouth.. Oh hell no, I aint very good at meeting new people the last few people iv met have been pure coincidence and next to zero effort. Speaking for long time through friends and becoming close. If i was to go out now id have zero clue unless i was ****ed out of my head but then that goes a different way of just pasty smashing

On the plus side i got some pasty smashing off an old f bud so im not wallowing
 
If you're having girl problems I feel bad for you son.
I got 99 problems but a ***** ain't one.



Plenty of fish in the sea. You may think there isn't but get out of your slump and get your funky groove on and it will happen.
 
Best advice, block number, never contact again and move on with your life, don't waste years moping around over someone who left you, there's billions of other women out there.
 
Lord_Kokain said:
Here is a worse case scenario in case you feel unlucky - my gf that I dated for many years broke up with me suddenly, using cliches and via sms. I dont have solid proof she is cheating but my money would still go on this version. Now its been over a week,she claims to be too busy not only to meet me but pick up my calls either. I once made a thread about her in OCUK cauz she is a muslim and I was asking people whether its wise to convert in order to marry her. Well,so much for religion making one in any way a better person. My much less traditional/religious ex's have all had a more dignified way of breaking up.
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Just wanted to comment on this bud, most of my ex's have been Muslim and it has always ended on the religious side of things. Not from my point of view but the girls family or hers.

In your case it may be that this is the main issue and shes using it to make herself not talk to you. I would go for that and ask and if she cant answer you then just leave it at that.

Most of the time with the religious side of things specially with muslim girls its just that.

Either way I hope its just that instead of her off with some bloke who is muslim which she sees as an easy option out of her dilemma pfft.

I was with my ex for 3 and half years and she was muslim to similar shenanigans I left her in the end.
 
Asking for advice on the Internet will always make you feel better.

No wait, thats not what I meant. Shut up, your all namby pamby touchy feely tell me your problems I'll cuddle you better soft ****es.
 
Unicorn said:
I could type and text a person into bed if i tried
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Try it on me *giggle*

Unicorn from the pic of you I saw in the "post your pic" thread, you look like you need to take the advice people gave you. New haircut, new clothes, join a gym. Then use your new confidence to stop women walking all over you. You look and sound like a bit of a wet blanket, sorry.
 
I could type and text a person into bed if i tried.

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Welp :/
 
Unicorn said:
Im quite an admittedly confident behind a screen person. I could type and text a person into bed if i tried but if it comes to me talking with my mouth.. Oh hell no, I aint very good at meeting new people the last few people iv met have been pure coincidence and next to zero effort. Speaking for long time through friends and becoming close. If i was to go out now id have zero clue unless i was ****ed out of my head but then that goes a different way of just pasty smashing

On the plus side i got some pasty smashing off an old f bud so im not wallowing
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ha ha ha don't fool us!
 
Take your tampon out and stop being such a mangina! Your 20 years old FFS, you have years of breaking female hearts and having fun. You have got the rest of your life to be in a stable relationship and settle down. Be grateful you've found out what a sket these girls are after a short amount of time.

Now, go fourth with your mates and have fun. If you meet girls along the way then go for it, but don't devote your everything to them. Get a life, be happy, be confident and the females will come to you. Your only worry should be enough money to have fun and get the things you want.
 
Unicorn said:
Im quite an admittedly confident behind a screen person. I could type and text a person into bed if i tried but if it comes to me talking with my mouth.. Oh hell no, I aint very good at meeting new people the last few people iv met have been pure coincidence and next to zero effort. Speaking for long time through friends and becoming close. If i was to go out now id have zero clue unless i was ****ed out of my head but then that goes a different way of just pasty smashing

On the plus side i got some pasty smashing off an old f bud so im not wallowing
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Go to the gym, build muscle and confidence.
 
Unicorn said:
I started the gym again friday been keeping myself busy and keeping my mind off her today but i got a "nice" message off her today with loads of hate in it for some reason so its bought it all back up :/
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If she has turned to just be an evil *****, get those guns out on show.

But as said, things happen and just move on.

edit: Magnolia, that picture will make any man rigid! :p
 
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I wondered why magnolia seemed normal in a post.. Its okay again haha

Yeah iv blocked all contact with this one too now and haha I'll agree the comment seems odd but that's the simplest way to put it. Need to get my confidence back again
 
Give yourself a week off to 'get over it' then get back out there.
This process of finding/leaving someone should be a regular occurrence for the next few years until you find something special.

Make it interesting and go do stuff you don't normally do and meet new people/women from it, you will surprise yourself.
 
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