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The OcUK Relationship Counselling and Hugs Thread
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Ok, here we go.
Your relationship sounds terrible and you both sound unhappy with the direction things are going in. That's because you are in a terrible relationship. My advice would be:
1. Don't get married to your fiancee.
2. Break off your engagement.
3. Spend some time having fun and remembering that life can be pretty great.
4. Do cool stuff and meet new people.
5. If you want to, date people. People are fun.
6. Make your life a happy one.
Your relationship sounds terrible and you both sound unhappy with the direction things are going in. That's because you are in a terrible relationship. My advice would be:
1. Don't get married to your fiancee.
2. Break off your engagement.
3. Spend some time having fun and remembering that life can be pretty great.
4. Do cool stuff and meet new people.
5. If you want to, date people. People are fun.
6. Make your life a happy one.
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You really need to break up, its clearly not working.
Or completely ignore everyones opinion and continue to be berated in to arguments and feel like ****, the choice is literally yours.
Or completely ignore everyones opinion and continue to be berated in to arguments and feel like ****, the choice is literally yours.
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[TW]Sponge;25654091 said:
Update. Well we had talks and decided to give it one more go. This was Friday, and today, she found out she is pregnant!
So glad I managed to sort things out with her now, and if anything is going to pull us together and make us stronger it's this (hopefully).
So yeah, I'm kind of excited now
Why do most women want you to text and ring them all the time?
Even on OKCupid there is a question about how your partner has to keep in contact at least once a day, and the majority say this is an absolute must.... sometimes I like my own time and nothing turns me off a woman more than her nagging at me or moaning because I didn't phone her due to being busy!
Even on OKCupid there is a question about how your partner has to keep in contact at least once a day, and the majority say this is an absolute must.... sometimes I like my own time and nothing turns me off a woman more than her nagging at me or moaning because I didn't phone her due to being busy!
[TW]Sponge;25689387 said:Update. Well we had talks and decided to give it one more go. This was Friday, and today, she found out she is pregnant!
So glad I managed to sort things out with her now, and if anything is going to pull us together and make us stronger it's this (hopefully).
So yeah, I'm kind of excited now
Hate to tell you, but if your relationship is in trouble, the stress of a baby is just as likely to drive you apart as bring you together. Tread carefully, but I hope you manage to work it out if that's what you want.
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Hopefully yours!
Definitely mine thanks
It was in trouble, we are perfectly fine now after a good long talk the other day and we both know where we stand etc....
I think I might be a woman, I like shopping too.
Unlike most men i like going shopping with my gf to get her clothes. If you want her to look hot then you need to be there to make sure she picks the right clothes, so when she asks for my opinion i steer her in the right direction (Higher heels, shorter skirts, tighter tops etc)
The upshot is that since we've been together she went from a cute but dowdy girl to someone seriously hawt!
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So your idea of an attractive woman is a street wh0re?
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I think street whores swap sex for cash? Usually anyways.
Tight tops, short skirts and high heels are generally just attractive to men.
OH WAIT...Maybe thats why street whores wear them.
So a woman that takes pride in her appearance is a prostitute? You Muslim or something?
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Unlike most men i like going shopping with my gf to get her clothes. If you want her to look hot then you need to be there to make sure she picks the right clothes, so when she asks for my opinion i steer her in the right direction (Higher heels, shorter skirts, tighter tops etc)
The upshot is that since we've been together she went from a cute but dowdy girl to someone seriously hawt!
That is what http://net-a-porter.com is for. All the clothes she could want from the comfort of your lounge
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Think this has to be the best insecure comment and realisation of the situation I am in.....
GF and fiancé of 19Months, walking the dog through a small shopping precinct.......
Me "One day I am going to go into the Butchers and get one of the Sausage rolls they look amazing"
Her "Could I come or can't I"
Me "......... What"
Her "Well do you want me there"
Me "......... I just assumed you would be there if you wanted one....."
Ugh FFS! SOLID AS A ROCK!
Cannot believe this.
GF and fiancé of 19Months, walking the dog through a small shopping precinct.......
Me "One day I am going to go into the Butchers and get one of the Sausage rolls they look amazing"
Her "Could I come or can't I"
Me "......... What"
Her "Well do you want me there"
Me "......... I just assumed you would be there if you wanted one....."
Ugh FFS! SOLID AS A ROCK!
Cannot believe this.
Wow...insecure is not the word!
Daft thing is, if you 2 break up (after she has got over it) she will probably look back at the relationship and think "OMG! I can not believe I was like that..."
How old are you both? (sorry if this has already been asked)
e: and is this her first 'proper' relationship (live together, engaged etc)