The OcUK Relationship Counselling and Hugs Thread

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We see it all the time, a thread entitled 'Oh no, another relationship thread' or 'Help, my missus caught me watching porn and won't speak to me' etc etc.

I thought it was time to condense all relationship stories, woes, help threads and other lovey dovey nonsense into one thread. :p

Sort of like the 'This instant and moment' but just for relationships - let's see if the usefullness of the OcUK Massive can help other people in a thread dedicated to how **** computer people are with women, or men.

I'm useless myself, I have a couple of threads on here about how I've managed to screw up a relationship in epic proportions!
So share your woes, have a group hug, and let your heart pour out into the most un-manly thread on here.

Go. :p
 
Free hugs are a given in here, feel the OcUK warmth. :p

Relationships, for me anyway, are probably one of the most rewarding things possible when they go well. It's when it all goes to pot that it becomes a massive ballache. :D
 
SeraphX said:
Because i've been single for so long, every opportunity that comes along usually crashes and burns for some stupidly inane reason, or i get my personal favourite old gem, 'your like the brother i don't have' or 'I'd rather be friends' :rolleyes:
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Phate is the master of friendzoning, you should chat to him sometime. :p

I used to find the same until I got my confidence up. Since then I've had a bit more luck, fingers crossed anyway. :)
 
SeraphX said:
Friendzoning? what is that in english? lol

I have confidence, i know how great i am/can be, but i also know the sun will never shine out of my proverbial :p
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Managing to be put into the friend zone by every girl you meet. :p

Girls seem to like confidence for some reason, but there's a fine line between being confident in yourself, and being a ****. I usually go too far. :p
 
I suppose I should weigh in now it's taken off.

I broke up with my partner of 2 years just over a month ago officially, although it was over for a lot longer than that - we just stayed together for our daughter's sake.

I'm now seeing a lovely new girl who accepts my past and takes me for who I am, so nomatter how bad it gets there's always hope guys.
 
paradisiac said:
this is the hardest thing. you keep in contact because of the kids, and you wonder what would have happened if you had done something differently. unfortunatly most of the time no matter what you did it would have ended the same way eventually.
a lifetime of loneliness though doesn't sound fun though, so i hope there is someone out there for me :p
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Yeah, you and me both. It's scary thinking of a life alone, but even scarier thinking of a life being unhappy.
 
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