You might know how to make Coca Cola but that doesn't mean to say people will buy it or you'll get it right.
You're actually one of my fav togs on here and the wedding work you do i think (and my missus agrees so i must be right) is sublime. But for all of the quality in your processing (and it is), it's what you capture for me, that's the bit that sets you apart. Not upping your black point, playing with curves, adding grain etc. It's an ability that can not truly be taught, you have a photographers eye.
If someone knows roughly your processing it doesn't mean squat unless are as good as you capturing the scene in front of them. Polish a turd, it's still a turd