Would you date a pregnant girl?

Just to dispel some of the negativity, I met my girlfriend when she was 4 months pregnant. We've been together for three years now. Naturally, there was some reticence to begin with. I've grown to love the boy as if he was my own, and I've been present throughout - including the sleepless nights, dirty nappies, and temper tantrums. Does this make me a mug? No - because this is not something that has taken place behind closed doors. Everyone has been privy to the situation, from my girlfriend's closest friends and work colleagues, to my immediate family. They consider me an exception to the rule, and heartily commend my efforts.
As for the Father? His involvement is minimal - the consequence of burning one's bridges.

Edit: It's not a situation to be taken lightly. Life seldom adheres to your plans, however. Don't sheepishly indulge the negativity of others, and instead discern the situation for yourself.
 
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I'd be amazed if anybody who knew what heavily pregnant women and newborn babies are like would stick around. It's difficult enough to deal with your own offspring, but going through all that crap for somebody else's spawn?

**** that. Run far away and don't ever look back.
 
It's a trap.

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If known her for a while id think about it. 2 days, jump off that ship its going to sink.

Also imagine the financial hardship caring for someone else's child and I bet the farther will want to be involved at some point...
 
Lol sounds like time for a hit and run

my housemate met a girl on the Web she got 3 kids and was living with her ex who she was also married to. She's now pregnant number 4 my mate thinks it his. But anyways if it is or isn't well yea his live just about to get turned upside down when she pops next month. Don't envy that.
 
Vidar said:
No, no... sadly I can't entertain you all with how I got into such a mess as it's actually not me...

Catching up with a friend today he tells me he went on a date with a girl he really, really liked... sealed the deal as he put it, only to be told two days later that she just found out she is 10 weeks pregnant and the donor doesn't want to know...

I really doubt I could wrap my head round something like that.... What would you guys do if you found yourselves in that situation?
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If it's a childhood sweetheart I've known all through school/growing up then maybe. If it was someone I recently met then no, I'd drop her like it's hot.
 
Hell no. And I'd be telling your mate to get STI tested as well, since she clearly isn't aware of these useful little devices called condoms...
 
I knew a guy who this happened to, ended up raising the kid as if it were his own then a good few years into the relationship she ends it and denies him all access to the kid, was pretty messed up.
 
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