Little update.
I almost bought an E46 M3, but (on 19" tyres at least) it has a suspension that is too hard for the rubbish road surface on my daily commute. I have some mechanical sympathy for my cars, and I winced at the same places every time over the week I drove it. I'm sure the car was fine, and could handle it perfectly well, I just thought no, I'm not doing this to it! Other than that these things are awesome!! Twice!!
I eventually discounted the 330i and the 335i (after test drives) as I found them quite similar to my 5 Series, so it didn't really make sense to change from that point of view, as I was looking for something different. The performance of the 335i is staggering, but very smooth, and I think to make it into a drivers car you'd need to tune it to a level that it would be very easy to get into real trouble or lose your licence. Possibly the best all rounder I looked at, just a little too well developed and effortless, if that makes sense.
I drove the R32 Golf, which I loved, and the MK5 GTi, which I didn't. The R32's noise is epic, and it felt special, but they are very expensive at the moment and I couldn't justify the premium over the rather more ordinary, but equally capable, and more easily tunable, GTi, which I found a bit bland. I had a good look at the Audi TT, in 3.2 and in early 2.0 versions, but the back seats are, as was pointed out, simply too small to be of any use. My 5 year old didn't fit!
I also drove the Focus ST which I absolutely loved. But they are quite pricey for what they are, which is a performance version of one of the most popular runabouts on the road. Also, in Essex, it seems like everyone has one! Great car though, and as Ross said, hilariously tunable, just perhaps not special enough. I didn't, for instance, look at it and think "Oh yes, yes please!".
Over the last month to six weeks my search has included something a bit different, and this is what I've bought.
I haven't driven it much as yet, maybe 200 miles or so, but I'm happy with it, and it has potential. It definitely doesn't have the build quality of my BMW, but it rides smoothly on the road, and feels well planted. It feels more "alive" through the wheel and the seat, perhaps because it is less refined. It's much noisier as far as road noise is concerned and the exhaust is quite loud, but has a really lovely burble to it. It looks like an aftermarket system but I have no comparison, and it also sports a K&N aftermarket panel filter, so it has been owned by an enthusiast.
It is a Cat D, stolen recovered, and was found in a container ready for shipping to far off lands apparently, but, I'm going on what the dealer stated and will need to contact the previous owner to gain more insight.
I've bought the car on emotion, and I'm not disappointed so far. We shall see.
As I'm planning to do a few small mods I will start a thread on those once my pocket has recovered.
