So my bro in law has just left my sister

Just be there for your sister, She's quite far along in her pregnancy so is going to need lots of help.

As he was your best man, I assume you class (classed) him as a mate is there a mutual friend you could ask to contact him as a friend and see whats going on.
 
MrMoonX said:
So my sister is 7 months pregnant, her husband out of the blue says he's leaving, blames their relationship saying it isn't working anymore and wants out, no indicators what so ever. He spent the last two weekends with mates. He even helped me move about a month ago and everything seemed ok. Now he's being a total douche and my sister is in bits. Today he's said I'm giving notice on house and don't worry you can get a council house, wtf? They have been together for 8 years he was even the best man at my wedding.

I'm thinking he's having a breakdown or he's cheating. My sister has nothing only a contract job because he's always earned really good money etc. I want to think of the best way to find out for her what's going on, I know where he works etc. but she doesn't know any of his passwords as he works in IT and they are all hard to remember. Ideally I want his icloud so I can gps him

Help me OCUK detectives
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I'm gonna take the other road and say your sister was cheating and he's being decent and not outing her.
 
MrMoonX said:
Yeah I guess but she's in bits and I wanna know what he's up to
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Instead of trying to find out the gossip, which it sounds like you are wanting to do, why don't you go and support your sister in this difficult time. She is what is important, not finding out what he may or may not be doing.
 
MrMoonX said:
I want to think of the best way to find out for her what's going on, I know where he works etc. but she doesn't know any of his passwords as he works in IT and they are all hard to remember. Ideally I want his icloud so I can gps him
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haha, oh MrMoon!


MrMoonX said:
I wonder if you could do a subject access request to GCHQ to see what they hold on me am ordinary citizen with no reason to hold my data. My guess is they have something on all of us without reason or warrant.

What will the public do about it? Probably nothing the apathy is appalling in this country, seriously our own government are snooping on our Internet data without a single reason, other than the terrorism boogeyman BS.

Seriously if there was ever a reason to riot it's now!

Oh and just for GCHQ: bomb, overthrow, government, parliament, monarchy, Cameron, Obama, assassinate, Arab, Riot, alah, bin laden

Everyone on the Internet should start adding spy keywords into posts, emails etc it will clog the system until it breaks
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http://forums.overclockers.co.uk/showpost.php?p=24498673&postcount=23


MrMoonX said:
great bye bye civil liberties, UK welcome to the police state
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Communication is the only course of action and that's between your brother in law and sister this excludes you.

You are aware gaining access to someone else's media / data / equipment without their permission is illegal and is regulated under the Computer Misuse Act.
 
Heliospherez said:
Why are you getting involved ?

It's her problems and her relationship. How do you know she isn't having the affair and it's not his baby.

Don't get involved in other peoples relationships - even close family - you will be the worst in the world - and for all you know they could get back together and disown you completely.

And as for expecting the Forum to get info on him........ what is that about ? This isn't 4chan.
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Dimple said:
This is some of the best advice ever.
Be there for your Sister but keep out of it.
There are always two sides to every story.
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I'd have to agree with this. Let him take his decisions. While I can agree it is a crap thing to do, he will have his reasons. And even if he is cheating, what will you do? Will you drag him back home and fix their relationship?

Be there for your sister. Help her. But don't butt into her relationship more then necessary.
 
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Hypocrisy at its greatest!

OP, stay out of it. By all means take sides and support your sister and your family but don't get involve.
 
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