So my bro in law has just left my sister

meandu229 said:
One of my friends just upped and left his wife of a x years (unsrue how many more than 5 though) with 1 kid. Came and lived with me for about 4 months before he realised he wanted to go back he thought the grass was greener and didnt realise what he had till he lost it. Lucky for him she took him back they are happy again with another child.
Sometimes these things work them selves out. Sometimes not.
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agreed!!!! I've heard of this so many times. People seem to quick to run away looking for something better.

It's very selfish, especially when kids are involved.
 
MrMoonX said:
Yeah I guess but she's in bits and I wanna know what he's up to
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Why? What purpose does it serve? If he's cheating, it doesn't change anything, he's still leaving and your sister is still in the same position.

What's done is done and nothing can change that now.
 
Married with a heavily pregnant wife, just ups and leaves with no warning.

I would be inclined to believe he isn't "getting any" and has found a solution to his problem.

Leave them to it OP. Look after your sister, be supportive and kind/close but unless she ask for your help, stay out of that side of it.

And even if she does ask for help, realise that what you are asking it very stupid.
 
It could be just he's unhappy with his life & feels it's taken another step towards a direction which may make it worse.

It may be a feeling which passes, he could end up regretting it. Either way, for the sake of the child digging up anything which could cause further animosity will only endanger the prospect of the child having a healthy & stable relationship with both parents (as even if he isn't cheating, you may find something which looks bad out of context).
 
He either does not want to be a dad and wants to get out of there before he gets locked in to the kids life or its all about your sister and he does not like her any more. But to break up at 7 month pregnant is a bit much, women are always at their worst when pregnant, well usually, they are not nice to be around, moan a lot and they are demanding and rude and self centred. Who knows maybe it was a long time coming and he just has bad timing. Maybe he is sterile so knows that the child is not his?
 
He probably wanted a PS4/xbone but somebody had bought them all and was flogging them at extortionate prices, so then he rage quit.
 
I'd say he's just freaking out about the impending massive responsibility that's about to land in his lap, however instead of doing what a rational and decent person would do by talking to their partner he's decided to regress to a child and bail to be with his mates.

Mates who at this point should really be giving him a shoeing for leaving his very pregnant other half in the lurch, more importantly his unborn child. Selfish doesn't come close, that poor kid needs the best possible start in life and he's stunted him from the off.

Like everyone else, I'd wager there's more to this story than the op is letting on. However on the face of it he needs to man up and either a) deal with the temporary situation be that a grumpy Mrs or whatever and then get on with being a Dad or b) commit to his child. Else he's just asking to get taken to the cleaners by the CSA or whatever they're called now, and in this instance and on these "facts" I reckon that's totally justified.

Or the kid isn't his, the sister listens to Celine Dion constantly and farts in his face whilst he sleeps and joyrides his car around fields, then has strangers over for sex which she then films and puts on the Internet.
 
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