Girlfrend not wanting to drive to me anymore !

Driving 30 mins (with paid for petrol) for a man willing to take on a single mum is no effort at all.
 
I totally get she has a child and I don't expect her to drive to me every weekend hence I've got the Bus and even borrowed my dads car to go see her a few times . Its just at the start of the relationship she was well aware that I didn't have a car, not every guy has a car , I'm currently in the process of getting a car as I don't expect her to drive all the time at all , just wish she would drive to me in the mean time until i sort something out thats all. :)
 
jasonsony735 said:
I totally get she has a child and I don't expect her to drive to me every weekend hence I've got the Bus and even borrowed my dads car to go see her a few times . Its just at the start of the relationship she was well aware that I didn't have a car, not every guy has a car , I'm currently in the process of getting a car as I don't expect her to drive all the time at all , just wish she would drive to me in the mean time until i sort something out thats all. :)
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Not setting you up to have a dig, but how long have you been in the process of getting a car?
 
jasonsony735 said:
I've been in a relationship now with my partner for 6months and she lives about a 30min drive from me , I do have a license but don't currently have a car as I feel its a waste of money , ever since we been together she has driven to me but lately she has started to moan saying she doesn't want to drive too me all the time , ( Only see her weekends as she has a daughter ) So I have a few times now gone and got a Bus too her and I have also said to her that Ill pay for her fuel , I've spoken to her about it and her reply is ! I need a guy who can drive me around WTF ! my Ex use to drive me every was her reply ! , She has also moaned at me because I didn't drive a hire car when we went abroad last month , again I said to her a number of times ,do you want me to drive with her reply na im ok , I feel like I'm the one making all the effort in the relationship now , and it starting to **** me of if im honest , I feel like I just want to call it a day as over the past month I;ve seen her maybe 3 times , I'm at that stage now where If I miss a week as she doesn't want to drive I don't see her for 12 days , We text everyday to each other thou but she never calls me , and its the same text every day how is your day ? boring boring boring , When we are together don't get me wrong we are very close and get on brilliantly , the other options is I just get a car and drive her around to keep her happy lol ! The thing is , if this was the other way around and she didn't drive Id drive to her every weekend np at all ! So this does **** me of a little and the fact I've offered to give her fuel money as well....
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Seems perfectly reasonably to me.
 
jasonsony735 said:
I totally get she has a child and I don't expect her to drive to me every weekend hence I've got the Bus and even borrowed my dads car to go see her a few times . Its just at the start of the relationship she was well aware that I didn't have a car, not every guy has a car , I'm currently in the process of getting a car as I don't expect her to drive all the time at all , just wish she would drive to me in the mean time until i sort something out thats all. :)
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How long does it take to buy a car? Find one you like, buy it, the end.
 
Not sure why OP even needs a car for a 30 min journey. Take public transport or a taxi and be better off.

Or walk, or cycle or run.
 
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Do you speak like you write? There may be a hint there.


Also, expecting a chick to come to you every single tine is ridiculous. Catch a bus, train, cab, whatever. Do something nice for her. She's not a hooker ffs.
 
Sorry dude, you've just found out about this the hard way:-


You just don't have enough money to have a hot gf - move on and aim lower next time.
 
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She sounds a bit up herself is my initial reaction. If its too much trouble then would she make a good relationship in meeting you half way in all the other things life throws at you. She sounds too weak to say she wants to end it so this to me seems the cowards way out hoping your either going to dance to her tune and buy a car and make a rod for your own back or that you'll end it and safe her the job.
 
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