Gender Pay Gap
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Why?
I'm not telling you how to raise your child, but that is a really irresponsible thing to do.
Also, your contention that streets would thrive again if mothers were at home is also a little far-fetched. You're not taking into account a myriad of other factors such as how society has changed, how consumable media allows people to hide away instead, how the neighbours are just as likely to be from somewhere very culturally different and just as unlikely to interact.
New mums already seem to do pretty well with networking due to play-groups and social media groups. Why do you think people would suddenly take to the streets in a big unified dance number?
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Do you honestly believe this rubbish?
Wow so many replies. I will do my best to answer them all.
Off topic but I will answer. I am against medicating water supplies. I use fluoride free toothpaste and at 31 I still have all my own teeth and only 1 filling
Thank you for agreeing with me that a working class father from 1900 to 1950s could support a large family. I agree the standard of living for the poor is much better now, you can be poor and have a 40" TV, at least that's what my 40" TV tells me every week.
Generally children in day orphanages are babies and toddlers.
Well if it wasn't good enough for the prime minister's children (I can't remember if it was blair or cameron) then it's not good enough for mine. There is a risk in every choice in life and I like the odds better in my choice. What finally made up my mind was everyone wanted to give my baby a Vitamin K injection when only 1 in something like 100,000 babies need it, mainly because of a bad birth. On the second day I heard a nurse in the next room using fear tactics on a woman because her husband didn't want it too "if your baby doesn't have the injection he could get a bleed on his brain and DIE! But I am not trying to scare you" (Of course the woman was terrified) But thank you for not telling me how to rise my child.
Yes, I’m laying it on a bit thick here, but nothing like as much as the left, who claim that mothers who stay at home to raise their own children are ‘chained to the kitchen sink’.
If we are still in England when Tosno Jr is 4, then we will homeschool him. All evidence points towards children doing much better starting schooling later, but alas here it's too damn fashionable to give your children to someone else to care for while the mother is often losing money by working. For sure we will be in Russia by the time Tosno Jr is 7 when school starts there.
I don't think I have the expertise at all to teach my son, that's your view not mine and of being so great
especially in English with my dyslexia. Luckily Mrs Tosno is a professional translator that worked for the European parliament and did private teaching before that, she has the expertise and is really great As for my job, who sad it is bad? After all I have a job that passes the minimum requirement of £18,600 for Mrs Tosno's visa 
I am always the first to admit I am a dinosaur, ROAR!!!1
Off topic but I will answer. I am against medicating water supplies. I use fluoride free toothpaste and at 31 I still have all my own teeth and only 1 filling
Thank you for agreeing with me that a working class father from 1900 to 1950s could support a large family. I agree the standard of living for the poor is much better now, you can be poor and have a 40" TV, at least that's what my 40" TV tells me every week.
Generally children in day orphanages are babies and toddlers.
Well if it wasn't good enough for the prime minister's children (I can't remember if it was blair or cameron) then it's not good enough for mine. There is a risk in every choice in life and I like the odds better in my choice. What finally made up my mind was everyone wanted to give my baby a Vitamin K injection when only 1 in something like 100,000 babies need it, mainly because of a bad birth. On the second day I heard a nurse in the next room using fear tactics on a woman because her husband didn't want it too "if your baby doesn't have the injection he could get a bleed on his brain and DIE! But I am not trying to scare you" (Of course the woman was terrified) But thank you for not telling me how to rise my child.
Yes, I’m laying it on a bit thick here, but nothing like as much as the left, who claim that mothers who stay at home to raise their own children are ‘chained to the kitchen sink’.
If we are still in England when Tosno Jr is 4, then we will homeschool him. All evidence points towards children doing much better starting schooling later, but alas here it's too damn fashionable to give your children to someone else to care for while the mother is often losing money by working. For sure we will be in Russia by the time Tosno Jr is 7 when school starts there.
I don't think I have the expertise at all to teach my son, that's your view not mine and of being so great
especially in English with my dyslexia. Luckily Mrs Tosno is a professional translator that worked for the European parliament and did private teaching before that, she has the expertise and is really great As for my job, who sad it is bad? After all I have a job that passes the minimum requirement of £18,600 for Mrs Tosno's visa I am always the first to admit I am a dinosaur, ROAR!!!1
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No it isn't but I tried joining from there but got refused. A lot less sites in general are not blocked.
Swings and roundabouts but both are far superior to state.
Because family > money, we have no desire to earn the maximum money possible. A good book once said you will love God or money and hate the other. Mortgage free, a car, holidays no need for a bigger monthly number at the expense of family, we are very happy with our lot and Tosno Jr will be going to private school when he is 7 not 4, homeschooling here is merely an excerise on staying on the right side of a backwards outdated law that the rest of Europe has left in the history books. Any particular question you want answered? Regarding Tefels I left out, it was clear I was talking about a loving relationship not an abusive one, a professional childminder can never trump the loving mother. Mother > professional childminder.
So just to confirm, you're a spiritual chap? Nothing wrong with hating money. I just don't think you should be relying on god to make sure your child doesn't get sick from something which is otherwise easily preventable.
It's like having sex without protection and if she gets pregnant, you claim it was god's will. Nothing at all to do with you popping another £20 in the tank, of course.
what about a child minder whose a loving mother?
but a child minder is likely to be more experienced than a new mother, and also less likely to be going through issues that aren't really helped by being locked in a house with a child.
This is getting silly now.
Yes I am and that sofa must have a million pounds on it with £20 everywhere.
A loving mother child minder is of course better than a child minder that isn't a loving mother. A loving mother is still better than a loving mother child minder.
It's really not rocket science to care for a baby. Baby is crying: Is he hungry? Does he need changing? Does he need attention? Or is he hot or cold.
And I never knew that new mothers are locked in a house surely a good husband gives his wife a chain long enough to go from the kitchen sink to the garden 
Yes I am and that sofa must have a million pounds on it with £20 everywhere.
A loving mother child minder is of course better than a child minder that isn't a loving mother. A loving mother is still better than a loving mother child minder.
It's really not rocket science to care for a baby. Baby is crying: Is he hungry? Does he need changing? Does he need attention? Or is he hot or cold.
And I never knew that new mothers are locked in a house
surely a good husband gives his wife a chain long enough to go from the kitchen sink to the garden And I never knew that new mothers are locked in a house
but any woman in work is chained to a desk?
In the case of a not so good mother, then of course a loving mother child minder is better.
Not a boarding school but a school which charges fees to parents of pupils.
WOOOOOOOSH! My comment chained to the desk is my laying it on thick to the lefts chained to the kitchen sink.
Not a boarding school but a school which charges fees to parents of pupils.
but any woman in work is chained to a desk?
WOOOOOOOSH! My comment chained to the desk is my laying it on thick to the lefts chained to the kitchen sink.
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Women tend to care less about their careers than Men as soon as they have children. I see this at work all the time, Women take years off having children, then when they do come back they work less hours and have loads of time off. I know a girl at work who's just been promoted, me and her were having a conversation and she said she feels like she was born to be a mother, and as soon as she has children they'll be her world. At the minute we earn around the same, I wonder if me or her will be earning more in 20 years, despite the fact she's probably harder working and as intelligent as me at the minute.