Life just took a divebomb - 8 Years down the pan.

This thread, some of the responses lol.
I hope things are starting to feel better David, it really is a crappy thing to go through.

But by the sounds of it, your better off without her, do things what make you happy!
 
peige said:
As above, OP has "Only I know her properly" head on.

I've been there, done that. Rest of my family told me I was best off out, in my heart I knew but I clung on with the belief that "we had something special that nobody else can understand" but you know what, it was all rubbish and my word, wasn't I better off when I realised it.
I played the field for a couple of years, found a cracking lady 6 years ago (online dating ftw) and now I'm living with her.
David will read this lot back in a month or 12 and realise (I hope!)
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Yup. Definitely. I was such a douche. One year later and I have a beautiful awesome lady I can see myself spending a long time with, in a different more mature way to the previous relationship. The 9 or so months single did me a lot of good.

I'm still a train driver, (of course) with a flat, a heap load more independence...plus the lady of course.

I can see why I believed things and that it was all for the good. She did me a favour really. I was obviously too much of a pussy to get out even though she treated me awful at points, especially the end situation. Hindsight is a wonderful thing.
 
David_VI said:
Yup. Definitely. I was such a douche. One year later and I have a beautiful awesome lady I can see myself spending a long time with, in a different more mature way to the previous relationship. The 9 or so months single did me a lot of good.

I'm still a train driver, (of course) with a flat, a heap load more independence...plus the lady of course.

I can see why I believed things and that it was all for the good. She did me a favour really. I was obviously too much of a pussy to get out even though she treated me awful at points, especially the end situation. Hindsight is a wonderful thing.
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I really like it when people come back and tell us how things are going. It's a great inspiration for people that post in these and other threads, who go through terrible times, and shows that there is light at the end of the tunnel.

Often things are better than they were before, and you deserve a big congratulations for working it out and getting yourself a better life.
 
Nice update mate glad you popped back on this thread for an update! I was in a similar position ten years ago, now married with a kid, won't deny I miss some of the independence, I got use to it, it was great lol
 
Pickers said:
So did you ever have any contact post note? Well done for moving on!!
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Well nothing other than I talked about. She left me another note after kinda leading me on although we weren't living together, just saw each other as friends for two months. The night the second note appeared I found her with him (was angry and wanted answers, he answered door, was like a movie!)

We chatted then went our separate ways with only contact to sort out the flat and financial issues. Last contact was around Xmas although I have had a couple of emails about a month ago which was civil and friendly. Mainly to sort out her bike that was still at my parents.
 
David_VI said:
Yup. Definitely. I was such a douche. One year later and I have a beautiful awesome lady I can see myself spending a long time with, in a different more mature way to the previous relationship. The 9 or so months single did me a lot of good.

I'm still a train driver, (of course) with a flat, a heap load more independence...plus the lady of course.

I can see why I believed things and that it was all for the good. She did me a favour really. I was obviously too much of a pussy to get out even though she treated me awful at points, especially the end situation. Hindsight is a wonderful thing.
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So glad its all worked out for you, thanks for the update :cool:
 
Steampunk said:
I really like it when people come back and tell us how things are going. It's a great inspiration for people that post in these and other threads, who go through terrible times, and shows that there is light at the end of the tunnel.

Often things are better than they were before, and you deserve a big congratulations for working it out and getting yourself a better life.
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Well done David, hope the new relationship works out well and you have hopefully learnt a valuable couple of lessons in life :cool::cool::cool:
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Now we need an update from the other bloke with the psycho ex who has been camping outside his door screaming the street down, oh and posting pics on here after she stalked him onto our very own forum. LOL
 
Good work David! Thanks for coming back to update the thread.

They say good judgment is the result of experience and experience is the result of bad judgment.

We gotta make these sort of mistakes to learn!
 
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