I know I’m asking for trouble by posting this in the GD but here goes……
I met this girl 6 months ago, we went on a couple of dates over the course of the first month or so and they we started seeing each other every week.
We only see each other twice a week most weeks, basically she’s just finished a degree and is now working a full time job but also does a few hours part time after her normal job, I understand it leaves little time for her and for a while I’ve been happy with what we are doing as we both like a bit of our own time anyway but here’s my problem…….
Obviously when we first started seeing each other we was txting all the time, having a laugh, being flirty ect, she’d often say she’s excited to see me tomorrow or whatever and looking forward to cuddling up ect. Over the past week this has just suddenly stopped, I’ve mentioned it to her and her reply is “after a while things change, you don’t keep that up forever” which is totally fine. It just seems to me that it’s a massive drastic change, not one flirty message in over a week.
We had a bit of a clear the air talk a few days ago and I said if you’re not feeling this anymore then we can call it a day and explained that I feel she’s been very distant. She said that she does want to carry on seeing me and has just been really busy at work ect and if she didn’t she would soon say, but I just can’t help but feel it feels different when we see each other now. She’s always on her phone txting her friends when before she would send maybe one or two through the course of the night, I just feel like I’m not getting a lot back.
I am one to overthink things and can sometimes make things worse than what they actually are.
What’s the thought of the GD, has she lost interest or am I just making a mountain out of a mole hill.
I met this girl 6 months ago, we went on a couple of dates over the course of the first month or so and they we started seeing each other every week.
We only see each other twice a week most weeks, basically she’s just finished a degree and is now working a full time job but also does a few hours part time after her normal job, I understand it leaves little time for her and for a while I’ve been happy with what we are doing as we both like a bit of our own time anyway but here’s my problem…….
Obviously when we first started seeing each other we was txting all the time, having a laugh, being flirty ect, she’d often say she’s excited to see me tomorrow or whatever and looking forward to cuddling up ect. Over the past week this has just suddenly stopped, I’ve mentioned it to her and her reply is “after a while things change, you don’t keep that up forever” which is totally fine. It just seems to me that it’s a massive drastic change, not one flirty message in over a week.
We had a bit of a clear the air talk a few days ago and I said if you’re not feeling this anymore then we can call it a day and explained that I feel she’s been very distant. She said that she does want to carry on seeing me and has just been really busy at work ect and if she didn’t she would soon say, but I just can’t help but feel it feels different when we see each other now. She’s always on her phone txting her friends when before she would send maybe one or two through the course of the night, I just feel like I’m not getting a lot back.
I am one to overthink things and can sometimes make things worse than what they actually are.
What’s the thought of the GD, has she lost interest or am I just making a mountain out of a mole hill.
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