Get a load of this guy.
Give it another 10 days OP, there might be a decent reason that she just doesn't want to mention for a legitimate reason. If things don't improve then it's almost definitely time to call it a day.
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Get a load of this guy.
Give it another 10 days OP, there might be a decent reason that she just doesn't want to mention for a legitimate reason. If things don't improve then it's almost definitely time to call it a day.
Give it a couple of weeks and you'll soon know how it stands.
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I approve of this strategy.
We have a master here.
sometimes she looks after her bros baby as well, shes supposed to have him sat so i txt her syaing i would see her sunday as it will pobably be easier as shes gonna have to look after the baby and i got back "i dont know when im having him yet" yesterday she def had him on sat
it started last monday by the way
it started last monday by the way
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seems to happen in every relationship. its make or break time
I think you're making this is out to be way more than it actually is. Seems like you're looking for things that might not even be there.
Maybe she said she was having the baby Saturday as a maybe, but it's not certain yet.
Maybe she said she was having the baby Saturday as a maybe, but it's not certain yet.
Another vote for this.
Sounds like my relationship in the early days. If you like her I would stick it out a bit longer. When we first met my wife had a very busy life with trying to start her career and a large circle of friends from Uni. I too was in the position you are but I have always been an advocate of wait and see rather than second guess a situation.
Anyway, as she settled into her job and her friends moved off doing their own things our relationship grew and grew. 9 years later we are married and could not be happier.
So unless you want to end it just be yourself, don't start getting all whingey and resentful. Show her that you are going to live a full and exciting life and it's up to her if she wants to come with you and be part of it.
Try and get her alone, a weekend away somewhere, not a restaurant or a bar. Take some long walks on the beach or in the country no mobile phones nobody else around. Quality time is what you need with her to know what she is all about.
Anyway, as she settled into her job and her friends moved off doing their own things our relationship grew and grew. 9 years later we are married and could not be happier.
So unless you want to end it just be yourself, don't start getting all whingey and resentful. Show her that you are going to live a full and exciting life and it's up to her if she wants to come with you and be part of it.
Try and get her alone, a weekend away somewhere, not a restaurant or a bar. Take some long walks on the beach or in the country no mobile phones nobody else around. Quality time is what you need with her to know what she is all about.
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Been with my other half for 7 years, we don't text during the day unless something happens pretty much from where we moved in together, before that it was certainly every day and more than a few.
Don't text her for a while, see what happens but I think you know what will happen.
Don't text her for a while, see what happens but I think you know what will happen.
Babysit together, her boyfriend wouldn't be very happy about that.
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Shes found someone she likes but isnt sure whether it will go anywhere so shes keeping you on the back burner in case it doesnt work out.
Cut loose and save yourself hassle and keep your dignity.
Cut loose and save yourself hassle and keep your dignity.
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just wait and see no need to go all, needy....
this does sound a bit like the roles have reversed in this relationship, if you like her then just play it calmly and see what happens.
But you need to get the trousers back lol
this does sound a bit like the roles have reversed in this relationship, if you like her then just play it calmly and see what happens.
But you need to get the trousers back lol
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If things have changed quickly she's probably changed her mind about the relationship; or something significant has changed for her.
Normally these things gradually fade away.
Normally these things gradually fade away.
It's been just over a week. She sounds like she's busy with work and perhaps something else is bothering her (friends, family etc).
After that length of time I certainly wouldn't be bothering her asking if she wants to end it or what not. That kind of behaviour may in fact push her to end it when she never had any real intention to before and comes across as a bit insecure.
I'd carry on as normal for a few weeks and see where things are. It may work, it may not work. She's a relatively young person, as are you probably, I wouldn't overly worry about this. It's hardly your last shot at love if it doesn't work out.
After that length of time I certainly wouldn't be bothering her asking if she wants to end it or what not. That kind of behaviour may in fact push her to end it when she never had any real intention to before and comes across as a bit insecure.
I'd carry on as normal for a few weeks and see where things are. It may work, it may not work. She's a relatively young person, as are you probably, I wouldn't overly worry about this. It's hardly your last shot at love if it doesn't work out.
seems to be some mixed opinions here which is what i was expecting, its just the lack of response to anything flirty i send, it just seems so weird, ive just mentioned it to her and if i dont get a reply that reassures me then i will call it a day
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