Advice on current Girlfriend

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purplesky said:
Look, whether you like to believe it or not, women are always doing "things" with other men behind your back. For the men on here reading this who currently have girlfriends or wives, she most likely has had sex with another man within the last 3-6 months. Women are like that. They have options at all times, even the not so attractive ones. Women need constant attention, and we all know that after the 3 month honeymoon period, the spark fades, more so for women. Best advice? Stop texting and phoning. And when she texts you, reply with one word answers. It will either make her more interested or you'll have your answer. Its all just a game, and whatever you do, you have to make it clear that you have options too.
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:DD what happened to you? C'mon spill the beans. Jeez you must have really liked her, that's some serious pain going on!
Go on, we won't tell anyone :)
 
A guy says it exactly like it is and all the gullible, whipped men won't have it and start questioning him. Always makes me laugh that. You really don't know the opposition.

I have been on this earth quite a while and have seen a lot. One thing I have learned through personal experience and observation of others is that women will stay with you until a better offer comes along and immediately start weighing up their options. Most of the time they are off.

I work in a predominantly female environment (NHS) and trust me, I hear all this from them. A good looking doctor shows a 'happily married' woman some attention and it's clear they would be off like a shot given half a chance. Most of them have cheated at some point - it didn't work out so they stuck with what they had.


I would rather try and nail my testicles to the ceiling than ever put all my trust and emotion into a relationship.

With regards the the OP, as soon as you sense anything, you are probably right, get out with your pride.
 
Clearcut said:
A guy says it exactly like it is and all the gullible, whipped men won't have it and start questioning him. Always makes me laugh that. You really don't know the opposition.

I have been on this earth quite a while and have seen a lot. One thing I have learned through personal experience and observation of others is that women will stay with you until a better offer comes along and immediately start weighing up their options. Most of the time they are off.

I work in a predominantly female environment (NHS) and trust me, I hear all this from them. A good looking doctor shows a 'happily married' woman some attention and it's clear they would be off like a shot given half a chance. Most of them have cheated at some point - it didn't work out so they stuck with what they had.


I would rather try and nail my testicles to the ceiling than ever put all my trust and emotion into a relationship.

With regards the the OP, as soon as you sense anything, you are probably right, get out with your pride.
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You make out that everything in life is so......clearcut.
 
Clearcut said:
I have been on this earth quite a while and have seen a lot. One thing I have learned through personal experience and observation of others is that women will stay with you until a better offer comes along and immediately start weighing up their options. Most of the time they are off.
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Completely right is that.
Despite what women say they want, they are always looking for a better looking man. Women are actually very shallow/superficial when it comes to looks and appearance, much more than men who value the whole package. That's why women wear makeup. Take the makeup off however, you generally end up looking at a very different person, probably taking at least a good 4 off the 1-10 attractiveness scale. A 9/10 can easily become a 5/10 without makeup. And yes, most "natural looking" girls are really wearing lots of makeup, it's applied really well that it looks natural. Don't fall for any of it.
 
Scrutinize said:
He's right though...
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I'm not one to scrutinize other people, but if you're finding girls are always clearing off for something better, maybe they aren't the problem, and you should look at yourself.

:p ;) :D

purplesky said:
Completely right is that.
Despite what women say they want, they are always looking for a better looking man. Women are actually very shallow/superficial when it comes to looks and appearance, much more than men who value the whole package. That's why women wear makeup. Take the makeup off however, you generally end up looking at a very different person, probably taking at least a good 4 off the 1-10 attractiveness scale. A 9/10 can easily become a 5/10 without makeup. And yes, most "natural looking" girls are really wearing lots of makeup, it's applied really well that it looks natural. Don't fall for any of it.
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ITT we find out who all the women haters are.
 
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purplesky said:
Completely right is that.
Despite what women say they want, they are always looking for a better looking man. Women are actually very shallow/superficial when it comes to looks and appearance, much more than men who value the whole package. That's why women wear makeup. Take the makeup off however, you generally end up looking at a very different person, probably taking at least a good 4 off the 1-10 attractiveness scale. A 9/10 can easily become a 5/10 without makeup. And yes, most "natural looking" girls are really wearing lots of makeup, it's applied really well that it looks natural. Don't fall for any of it.
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You realise that applying a 1-10 attractiveness scale somewhat undermines your claim that:

"Women are actually very shallow/superficial when it comes to looks and appearance, much more than men who value the whole package."
 
Sorry to break it to the "Realists" in the thread who make things "Clearcut" if a woman is looking at others and seriously considers it... It isn't because its in their "nature" its cause you suck and are boring.
 
spulse said:
i'm sorry you've had such awful women in your life
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It's not that I have had such awful women in my life. I've had my fair share of relatively good looking girls, i'm not complaining about that or the sex. But, as you get older, things just become clearer and you begin to see things from a different perspective, both through personal past experience and the experience of others.

I can safely say it now, if you are dating a good looking woman, she is highly likely to be getting it from another man, or has done whilst with you.
 
FortuitousFluke said:
You realise that applying a 1-10 attractiveness scale somewhat undermines your claim that:

"Women are actually very shallow/superficial when it comes to looks and appearance, much more than men who value the whole package."
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No, not at all. I can apply a scale of 1 - 10 on any woman. Doesn't mean I wouldn't date them if they weren't at least an 8.
 
purplesky said:
It's not that I have had such awful women in my life. I've had my fair share of relatively good looking girls, i'm not complaining about that or the sex. But, as you get older, things just become clearer and you begin to see things from a different perspective, both through personal past experience and the experience of others.

I can safely say it now, if you are dating a good looking woman, she is highly likely to be getting it from another man, or has done whilst with you.
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