The OcUK Relationship Counselling and Hugs Thread
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You're saying some people are using online dating to deceive others?
Well colour me surprised. Many of the profiles I stumble across are complete bullcrap.
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We require links to online social media accounts and a transcript of this evening's conversations so we can vet her. You may not proceed until we've given you clearance.
adding an inch to height and being liberal with "average body type" is not entirely the same league as "i'm probably going to be an emotional abuser"
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My FWB has her two friends staying over, just had a video clal in work showing them all in just thier panties because if the heat....
My boss told me i can't have tomorrow off...
Theyre going home friday
Pretty sure this is a crime against humanity
My boss told me i can't have tomorrow off...
Theyre going home friday
Pretty sure this is a crime against humanity
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My FWB has her two friends staying over, just had a video clal in work showing them all in just thier panties because if the heat....
My boss told me i can't have tomorrow off...
Theyre going home friday
Pretty sure this is a crime against humanity
You live in the age of digital streaming, friend. Needs must.
I'm yhinking more "i don't need sleep...and motorbikes are a very fast eay to get arlund
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I'm yhinking more "i don't need sleep...and motorbikes are a very fast eay to get arlund
Sick day? Yessss.... ^^
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Couldnt have been next week when in off for the whole week could it
Heatwaves wait for no man.
Make a good impression... maybe they'll come back... next summer. 
Hmm and the girl i met at the weekend who im going camping with has just told me i shpuld come tound to hers in the morning after work to sleep and sunbathe. She says shell be "quiet and relaxing" >_<
Choices gents house full of naked Philippinos and a brazilian or the local girl with extrodinary "skills".
Yet when im on holiday i can bet everyone will be busy
Choices gents house full of naked Philippinos and a brazilian or the local girl with extrodinary "skills".
Yet when im on holiday i can bet everyone will be busy
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Hmm and the girl i met at the weekend who im going camping with has just told me i shpuld come tound to hers in the morning after work to sleep and sunbathe. She says shell be "quiet and relaxing" >_<
Choices gents house full of naked Philippinos and a brazilian or the local girl with extrodinary "skills".
Yet when im on holiday i can bet everyone will be busy
GD recommends a community integration scheme. For social justice and great friendship between peoples, Comrade Tefal!
GD recommends a community integration scheme. For social justice and great friendship between peoples, Comrade Tefal!
Choice has been made local girls place for "bathing" and picnic.
And then we'll video call the others and wind them up.
Onw of the guys in work saw the video chat, and has offered to get me sent yome tonight with an "injury at work" if i need it
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You know what they say: two birds with one... phone? Yes. That'll do.
Well it was obviously throwaway hyperbole. No need to go all SJW. Given the number of people that experience some kind of mental health issue during their lives, we've probably all been in a relationship with it and maybe been able to work through those problems to a better place.
That's quite different from those people we all know who simply suck the joy out of life and destroy relationships and the people around them because they have mental health issues that they are unwilling or unable to overcome.
People will often stay with a partner out of loyalty, and it takes them years to realise they are in an abusive relationship, or that they can't fix someone. Two lives wrecked instead of one, more if there are kids involved. Given how poorly most people understand others, let alone themselves, it's no surprise.
So while I agree we shouldn't stigmatise those with mental health issues, neither should we stigmatise those that can't or don't want to put up with the drama that such a person can bring.
If one day the likes of mental health issues are really treated as a normal part of life, then it should be just as valid for someone to not wish to deal with that, the same way you might not want to date someone who has kids, is in a wheelchair, has no money, etc. Once mental health issues are normalised, they are just like any other thing we may or may not want in a partner.
You know i turned this whole sexual meanderings as a way to to get iver depression.
Now im fine I've realised just how many amazing people ive met and all the fun im havinf now im well.
I do miss relationships but every time i think of dating stuff like this happens and i think, i couldnt give up the openess and shear bizareness just yet