What is a fair price to pay ?

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Ok so let us imagine a scenario where Mr. X drives to work 50Km away every morning and comes home every evening.

Mr. X gives a lift to his friend Mr. Y who works at a place approximately 25Km along the route. It is about a 2 min detour for X to drop his friend off. They both start work at staggered times so there are no issues there.

The journey costs £2.50 in petrol there and £2.50 back. £5 a day.

Sometimes Mr X works late or has the morning off so Mr Y takes the bus that costs £4 for a single trip to or from.

Mr X asks Mr Y to chip in for fuel. Mr Y agrees gladly, the trip by car is much faster than the bus, it means he can leave later in the morning and it means he often gets home faster too.

Mr X asks him to pay 50% of the fuel costs £2.50 a day. The bus would cost him £8 a day remember.

Mr Y agrees but all of his mates thinks he is crazy because Mr X would be driving that way anyway so really he is just filling his own pockets making his petrol costs much cheaper.

Sometimes Mr Z comes on the ride too, he also pays £2.50. Effectively+ now Mr X is getting all his fuel costs paid. BUT both Y and Z are saving a ton on alternative transport costs.

How would you share the fuel costs on a journey like this ?

I'm inclined to pay 50% Its still cheaper for me in the long run. The driver isnt really going out of his way at all. But this is cos im British and it just seems the right thing to do ?

Or is it fairer to give a token gesture once a week such as buying lunch or a few beers because, In reality, the driver has no choice but to go that way: Mr X enjoys the company of Mr Y and Z on the trip, so its not worth bickering over a few £.

This would be a long-term arrangement if it would change your opinion.

Please discuss.

Maybe I'll add a poll of 4 or so options at a later date?

Pay half >
Pay 25% >
Pay a token amount 50p a trip >
Get the bus Mr X is a cheeky So and so. >
Other/Pancake please explain. >
 
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I would go with the token gesture for the reasons you stated. It's a lift to a friend - not a stranger.

Keep in mind I don't drive so not sure if that influences views.
 
What is fair is what you are prepared to pay. Keep in mind that the car owner not only pays for petrol but also the car and general upkeep, insurance, tax etc. He can ask as much or as little as he likes.
 
What is fair is what you are prepared to pay. Keep in mind that the car owner not only pays for petrol but also the car and general upkeep, insurance, tax etc. He can ask as much or as little as he likes.

Very valid point. I feel that Mr Y and Z don't really affect these values though should they really be paying to run his personal car?

Still its good to have your opinion !
 
I'd say 25% seems about fair tbh. Basically a little something to cover the inconvinience of having to drive to the house wait for him to come out and detour to drop him etc. And a little bit of petrol cover.

I used to give a mate a lift to and from college every morning he literally lives 2 minutes up the road from me so it was sod all of a detour, I never asked for petrol money but he offered me half, I just said call it a third and leave it at that. Would have saved him a 30 minute walk to the closest station and £6 a day on train fair.

Really is either were decent friends they should really have offered to chip in out of courtesy IMO.
 
They should contribute, you're saving them money getting the bus. Yeah they're friends but it's not a 1 off favour, as well as money what sort of time are you saving them too?
 
Be aware that accepting any Payment for giving someone a lift can be seen as Driving for Hire or Reward and can cause some major headaches if any claim on your Insurance should arise.
 
Yes, but what is it costing you?
It's costing you the same as it would without them but that's not the point.

If it's like that you may as well just tell your mate to get a car coz you'll sell yours so you can hitch rides for free.
 
I used to give my friend a lift to work every day and wouldn't have considered taking any money from her.

So, pancake. Pay nothing. Be a friend. Return some favours sometime. That's how being friends usually works.
 
i'd say at least half. the car wasn't free, the servicing, repairs, tax & insurance aren't free.
as a passenger you can pay 2.50 a day, get picked up from your house and dropped at work and then back to your door again or spend 8quid and have to get up earlier, put up with public transport etc.

hell if the driver said 8 quid a day it's still a better alternative!
 
You're Mr Y aren't you, OP?

They should pay whatever the bloke driving has asked them to pay or get the bus.
 
You're Mr Y aren't you, OP?

They should pay whatever the bloke driving has asked them to pay or get the bus.

I totally agree I've stated what i would do if you read. (pay 50%)
I knew there would be so many varying opinions.
We have already gone from paying Full + contributing to the cars running cost to buy your mate a drink or a return favour.

In my opinion as above: Of course its worth paying such a small amount + the time you save every day.

Does your opinion change if i am the driver? Does the way the question is phrased change your answer?
 
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I'd pay half and consider myself lucky to be getting a lift to work. The time you're saving being picked up and dropped off is worth money, the fact the guy is driving you to work is worth money, the fact he pays insurance, MOT and bought the car is worth money. The list goes on.
 
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