Homeless - of no fixed abode.
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How can you be estranged from your father when he has offered you money.
I think you are a joke tbh. Just rent somewhere and act like a normal person, not some paranoid woe is me sort.
I think you are a joke tbh. Just rent somewhere and act like a normal person, not some paranoid woe is me sort.
IYour relationship with your father must be reasonably good for him to offer you a deposit. So I assume you choose not to contact him rather than vice versa.
The current situation then us that you don't want to contact your father and you won't give anyone sufficient information fit them to take the risk of renting to you. Put yourself in the landlords position; would you rent to someone who you didn't know and would not provide much information about themselves?
What advice do you want from us other than to hand over enough details to rent a place?
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The current situation then us that you don't want to contact your father and you won't give anyone sufficient information fit them to take the risk of renting to you. Put yourself in the landlords position; would you rent to someone who you didn't know and would not provide much information about themselves?
What advice do you want from us other than to hand over enough details to rent a place?
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Plenty of agency setting out engineers and site engineers wanted. Plenty of cash digs around as well.
Where are you located?
Where are you located?
I'm intrigued about the fact that you're estranged from your father but he offered you your inheritance just a month ago. Why not just take it and run (especially as you're concerned your father's partner and her family may be a threat to your inheritance)?
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Except that thread suggests you're not being entirely truthful about your relationship with your father. Im estranged from my father, and haven't spoken to him in about 15 years. I doubt he'll pop up next week and offer to help me buy a house. It's even less likely that if he did, he wouldn't also be willing to help me out of my homelessness.
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Manchester. I will be looking for setting out contracts once I've got accommodation. Where do I find these CIH digs?
ETA - I'm prepared to move around
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So you've fell out with your dad who a month ago was offering you money for a deposit in a house while you already had £24k in the bank? You now have no where to live as for some reason you won't tell any landlords your name?
What do you really want people to tell you?? You either rent somewhere, or buy a house. Both options require you to tell people what your name is and how much you earn etc. What a strange fella.
With 24k in the bank you have more than about 80% of people. I also read your last thread about inheritance from his father so you clearly have family.
Maybe you don't have friends because of things like not wanting to give any details about yourself or saying your are homeless with over 25k
Maybe you don't have friends because of things like not wanting to give any details about yourself or saying your are homeless with over 25k
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Ring an agency tell them you want to work in their area and want to work through them but you need digs. It's pretty common so they should know a few.
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Clearly I shouldn't have mentioned my bank balance - for me, I don't consider 24k to be a lot of money. To dispel any ideas, I save most of my money when I'm in work, simple as that.
Get your Aspergers seen to and realise that when someone is allowing you to live in their property they have very much a right to know who that is to protect their interests, just as you would if you were renting a property.
I have an empty house but I wouldn't want an unknown living in it with no fixed contract in place. It's also not the nicest.
I have an empty house but I wouldn't want an unknown living in it with no fixed contract in place. It's also not the nicest.
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I will keep that in mind. Thanks.
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