Hi guys, I'm just wondering whether it's my anxiety or if I'm right to over think this. I'll try keep it as short as possible.
Split with my ex of 5 1/2 years (longest relationship by a mile), finally met a girl who I did fall for but she also had a child who took to me right away, my ex couldn't have children and I've been broody for a while so this also brought out the father figure in me.
The new girl was quite needy and wanted me to move in after a month, although we spent pretty much every night together part of me wanted this, bigger house etc, and part of me wanted to remain where I am now.
We did argue quite a bit but this was mainly over text when we weren't together, we'd never argue in person and I'm assuming this get taken the wrong way via text. She fell in love with me and made that obvious, she always wanted pictures together, posting stuff on facebook yada yada. Finally we had an argument and it was over the stuff I bought for the potential new house, I figured enough is enough as it's not fun anymore and it felt as if I was more excited to see her daughter then her.
We broke it off Saturday 23rd, and by the Tuesday after, she's in a new relationship with someone else (her best friends new fellas best mate O_O ) I know she hasn't cheated as we were always together, but I feel like a fool for opening up to her.
I just don't know what to feel, part of me is really grateful I've avoided being with someone who is kinda crazy, but I do miss certain things and her kid. But seriously how can someone be in love and want to do some serious things and then wipe that off and then fancy, go out and all the rest in under a week.
I just feel she's the type who needs someone there, although before me she was single since February and no "partners" since then, in fact her drive was as low as it could be, maybe 3 times in 6 months she says before she met me (whey)
I'm not even sure what I'm talking about now. It's really bugged me for the better and worst.
Split with my ex of 5 1/2 years (longest relationship by a mile), finally met a girl who I did fall for but she also had a child who took to me right away, my ex couldn't have children and I've been broody for a while so this also brought out the father figure in me.
The new girl was quite needy and wanted me to move in after a month, although we spent pretty much every night together part of me wanted this, bigger house etc, and part of me wanted to remain where I am now.
We did argue quite a bit but this was mainly over text when we weren't together, we'd never argue in person and I'm assuming this get taken the wrong way via text. She fell in love with me and made that obvious, she always wanted pictures together, posting stuff on facebook yada yada. Finally we had an argument and it was over the stuff I bought for the potential new house, I figured enough is enough as it's not fun anymore and it felt as if I was more excited to see her daughter then her.
We broke it off Saturday 23rd, and by the Tuesday after, she's in a new relationship with someone else (her best friends new fellas best mate O_O ) I know she hasn't cheated as we were always together, but I feel like a fool for opening up to her.
I just don't know what to feel, part of me is really grateful I've avoided being with someone who is kinda crazy, but I do miss certain things and her kid. But seriously how can someone be in love and want to do some serious things and then wipe that off and then fancy, go out and all the rest in under a week.
I just feel she's the type who needs someone there, although before me she was single since February and no "partners" since then, in fact her drive was as low as it could be, maybe 3 times in 6 months she says before she met me (whey)
I'm not even sure what I'm talking about now. It's really bugged me for the better and worst.
